hi.. any love experts here....im don im in l;ove with a girl in my office we excahnge looks i think she likes me ive never spoke with her. can somebody help me how to start a conversation with her and impress her.. im damn serious with this... im not feelin shy but i dont wanna make a wrong miove and screw it up please help me... girls or guys.. please
2006-09-09 06:32:45 · 30 answers · asked by donjaved 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi don here, im in love with a girl who works in my office.. we look at each other and smile, i like her very much.. but we've never talked with each other i wanna make a move and talk to her. i'm not feelin shy, just that i dont want to make a wrong move and screw it up, i'm seroius about this.. girls tell me what will a girl do when she likes a guy.. how can i know that she likes me... please help me... so.. as you guys said i'll go ahead and talk to her first.. and i'll be myself.. i'm a sweet guy, i never get angry, help me to get my girl please
2006-09-09 07:23:17 · update #1
You go up to her and say..."How you doen?"
hahaha....but seriously....
Next time you "look at each other" make sure she sees you and then smile. Not a big dorky smile...Just a "I like you" easy smile. Then later that day go up to her and respectfully and honestly say. Hello, I know you don't know me but I have noticed you around. My name is __________. Could I ask you a question?
Then ask her if she is involved with anyone. If she says yes.. Ask her if she is truly in love with him. Then ask her if not would she be interested in going to get something to drink (like coffee) after work. Tell her you just would like to know more about HER. NOT YOU WANT TO TELL HER ABOUT YOU!!! Then if you go out sit there and ask her everything you can about her. AND LISTEN!!! Women will be interested in a guy that is interested in her. There is a lot more to it that this but you will have a good start from here. Hope this helps
2006-09-09 06:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just go over to her & say something - Like for starters "Hi , How are u - my name is..... "how do u like working here or something like that --- if she keeps talking, then u can keep talking. If your nervous - u could think of some questions and conversation pieces before hand. If she don't say much - she could be shy ---or not interested. But at least you'll know. Sitting there and waiting - you may miss out on a chance. As someone else might snatch her off her feet. Good Luck! Take some chances!
2006-09-09 06:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by yellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Office love, dangerous, but that's not what you're concerned with. Ask her help for something, something that only she or her and a few other people could answer (not some question like "how's the weather" but something more geared toward what SHE does). Make sure you are really happy with her answer, and then you can reply "I owe you one" with a smile. From then on you should be able to talk to her whenever.
2006-09-09 06:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You work in an office and you still spell "want to" as "wanna"? Your grammar and spelling are atrocious and perhaps if you want to impress her you would learn these things. Intelligence is always impressive. Anyway, if you are old enough to work in an office and you are still unsure of how to ask a girl out, you have a HUGE problem! What are you, a 12 year-old office worker, or something? Rhetorical. Byt he way, you cannot be in love with someone to whom you have never even spoken. Geesh!
2006-09-09 06:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Don,
Listen. Don't take anyones advice on this.
Except mine.
Since we don't know you, how can we tell you what to do. Be yourself, and do what you feel comfortable doing. Most important, DON'T BE SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT. Because you are eventually going to have to come back to who you are.
So be you from the start. It has the most potential being anything if it is for real to start with.
And if it doesn't work, then it wasn't meant to be. But if you start off being something you are not, it will never be what it should be.
Best wishes.
2006-09-09 06:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The obvious answer is to walk up and talk to her, but I know its often the case we are too scared.
So here are a couple of tricks a girl in my office tried on me, that really impressed me.
Firstly, near the lifts, she just stood beside me, in exactly the same way, saying nothing but mimicking me. Mimicking is a form of flattery, but it has to be brief and casual, as playing copycat might be seen foolish.
Secondly she was just wandering around eating lollies and offered me one. "Would you like one", she said. "Yes thanks", I said. That was it, she wandered off, but the ice had been broken.
There is no need to rush up to her, fall at her feet and spill out, I Love You!, Love You!, just be casual, friendly and happy, and get to know her - little by little. So you can see each others personality.
'Genuine' friendliness is the most attractive (impressive) quality in strangers. Fear is not. So.. Lighten up! and best of luck.
2006-09-09 06:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by shion_3072 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be easy enough to start a conversation about work. Or the old classic, 'what did you do over the weekend'. If you have to, simply look for an opening. For example, she will come in with photo's of her sister's new baby...go over and look at them and say something.
You could try the old 'what are you doing for lunch' too...
2006-09-09 06:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say HI her name then tell it sure had turned out tobe a very nice day, you look good today in that dress outfit, ask what she is doing for a denner break: talk about sports ask her what is the best movie she had ever seen, and what movie she would love to see tonite. now say 2 of u at same lunch table ask her what got her into the job she is doing, & how long does she wants tobe there.... GOOD LUCK BUDDY!!!!
2006-09-09 06:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by mike_m50501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a casual conversation so you don't scare her off. Something like "hi how are you doing today?" She can reply without feeling cornered into approving or rejecting you right away. Or compliment her on her outfit, hair (whatever you find attractive). Don't start serious as it may just turn her off.
2006-09-09 06:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by Nan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't met yet just go up and introduce yourself. See if you can't get some small talk going. Maybe give her your number or invite her out on a casual date.
Better advice: Don't fish off the company pier.
2006-09-09 06:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by cannon1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋