I know i probably sound like a mess of insecurities but i really do want to get over him. I've liked him for a year and he liked me (in between girlfriends) Have you been in this situation...how did you get over it? Because everytime i try to have a relationship with another guy it doesn't work out because i can't seem to get over him. I NEVER EVEN DATED HIM! There's just something really special about him
2006-09-09 05:53:29 · 14 answers · asked by bangbangshootshoot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello, oh yeah - I've been there for the last six & a half months. You would really like to get over him but you think you might have the slightest chance of getting him back & then your life would be perfect.This kind of situation can make you crazy if you keep obsessively thinking about him. Also this can wreck your self esteem if you think you're nothing without him- or if you think his "greatness" can fix your life. You have to get your mind on other things...and start making your life work for you ,start having fun. You have to be there for yourself. It's heartbreaking when someone doesn't love us back ,but love is a choice that two people must make-not one . What's the wisdom in loving someone who doesn't love you back? You see I've been through it all & thought of every possibilty-so I've decided to look for love somewhere else ... you owe it to yourself to be happy , it may not feel like it but somewhere out there in this big world is the perfect person for you ..so go looking for him and I hope you find him because love & happiness is our greatest treasure...bye bye & good luck!
2006-09-09 06:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He broke ur heart. Dump him, dont think of him, get him out of ur mind. Hez not ur worth, even if ur attracted to him. Being u in his life doesn't make any sense to him, so if u start thinking abt him that's foolish. There are many girls around for him, u too see out other guys, be kind and polite with the other guys and have a steady relationship with any one guy.
Good Luck!
2006-09-09 13:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by ashlesha19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time and think about what you want. I had a love that I could not get out of my mind, but with time it will get better. Have you ever told the guy that you have feelings for him? Whats the worst that could happen...never moving on...oh, you are already there. But most importantly think about you and go from there.
2006-09-09 13:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Amy Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone finds someone that they admire...seems to me that's your situation...if your seeing him between girlfriends he sees you as a p/t lover...not a mate...there's someone out there for you just open up your mind and you'll find um. Good luck.
2006-09-09 13:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by dod civi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being so stupid that's the first thing then he's not worth it don't talk 2 him don't get close 2 him if that don't work ur a jackass I'm sorry I'm being so mean but people like u make me so mad love ur self a little women life's gonna run over u
2006-09-09 13:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get over him and move on... Why keep putting yourself in the position of getting hurt, especially by someone you have never dated... Keep your mind occupied elsewhere.
2006-09-09 12:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Termite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE HEART CAN ONLY LEAD YOU SO FAR,, THEN YOU HAVE TO USE YOUR HEAD!!
STOP LISTENING TO SAD SONGS , THINKING ABOUT HIM AND FOR ONCE LISTEN TO THE GUY YOUR OUT WITH INSTEAD OF THINKING ABOUT THE OTHER GUY ! LISTEN TO STRONG EMPOWERING WOMEN MUSIC LIKE FANTASIA , OR WHATEVER YOUR IN TO ,, IT HELPS AND BUILDS YOU UP . SAD LOVE SONGS MAKE YOU FEEL YOU NEED HIM AND HONEY YOU DON'T! I ONLY SAY THIS ABOUT SONGS BECAUSE EVERYONE DOES IT AND IT MAKES THEM FEEL LIKE SH**!
2006-09-09 13:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jezabel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry you will get over it, i was in a similar situation, and you think you wont ever get over it, but trust me in time, you will
2006-09-09 12:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on .....try stressing on the faults he had which u didnt like ....i think it 'll help
2006-09-09 12:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by Parjanya Roy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on cuz u know he doin the same
2006-09-09 13:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋