well heres the deal , i just met a guy friend of mine after almost 2 years. we didn't keep in touch because he became very busy with his sports team and was moving alot, but now he is back.
we were really good friends he used to help me whenever i needed it, he has been supportive, and 2 years ago i was starting to fall for him, but then he left.
now when i saw him i was in shock!!! not only has he become sorry to say more physically attractive but 10X more caring and so so nice to talk too!!!!!!!
its like my feelings for him have doubled when i saw him. i just want to hug him.
also i just was in a semi-serious relationship 2 mnths back, so am i rebounding or what i feel for him is real?
sorry for such a long Q, any thoughts would be appreciated.
2006-09-09 05:39:25 · 5 answers · asked by shrimpy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he makes your heart skip a beat when you see him or talk to him, it's definitely real. I wouldn't go jumping to conclusions though, does he want to be involved with you? I wouldn't just leave your current boyfriend to start something with this "friend." Find out what's up and go from there.
2006-09-09 05:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is safe to say that your feelings for him are genuine, because you had them before. I would also say it is safe to say that you are rebounding from this last relationship, which may lead to be more receptive to him because you want someone and this guy is like a breath of fresh air given the last couple months. But that doesn't mean its a bad thing. At worst, its just given you the capacity to appreciate him more. I say go for it.
2006-09-09 12:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you had feelings for him before this other relationship, then there is a good chance that its not just rebound. Take your time and see how things progress, if its meant to be, it will happen.. That will also give you the time you need to get over your other relationship
2006-09-09 12:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by Termite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, you should go for it, especially if he's sexy and cares for you.
But on the other hand, that's not sexy.
You can tarnish your friendship.
Long lasting friendships are sexier than a 3 month relationship.
Thanks for the points, gorgeous.
2006-09-09 12:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Elitist, much? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice going. keep it up.
2006-09-09 12:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋