one of my friends is going out with this guy and one day during a class he asked me out when he was still going out with her and i walked away and i daont want the news to spread cause if it gets all the way to her then im in trouble and like 5people already know what do i do?
2006-09-09 05:37:09 · 15 answers · asked by xx2dreamer2xx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing by walking away. If you friend gets wind of him asking you out, it is OK, because you turned him down by walking away. She should know that he is asking others out when they are dating. It is up to her to decide if she wants to date someone like him.
You should tell your friend what he asked you and what you did.
2006-09-09 05:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, and tell your friend in a loving way that her so-called boyfriend asked you out, but you said NO. Tell her that it's been bothering you and that you thought she has the right to know what happened. Let her hear it from you BEFORE it gets back to her from someone else. If she's a real friend, she'll respect your honesty and integrity. She may get upset at first, and that's okay. She'll get over it.
2006-09-09 12:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough situation...
Honestly, I would tell her NOW. Explain how everything went down, and how you walked away from the jerk.
If it gets to her through other people it's going to look a little fishy. If you admit it now, she'll know you're in the right.
Good luck :)
2006-09-09 12:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by cutiewithabooooty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your freind wht type a dude he really is unless deep down you wanted to say yes when he asked you out then that's a whole nother ballgame
2006-09-09 12:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by nealy pooh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you go out with him? Either way, you must tell your friend right away before someone else does it. She is your friend, isn't she?
2006-09-09 12:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y should u b in trouble . U declined the offer for your frnd didnt u ???
2006-09-09 12:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by Parjanya Roy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um yeah they can if they're idiots. Find someone better, and it was good of you to just walk away.
2006-09-09 12:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by pieninja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pretend he never asked you out, and move on with your life.
2006-09-09 12:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by ebiraland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him, she will understnad and she will blame him not you, i did it b4 and she blamed him, and we are still together
2006-09-09 12:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not your fought hes a jerk.not at all your fault
2006-09-09 12:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by patricia c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋