My girlfriends daughter is 13 and incredibly hot. I would never touch her or do anything to hurt her but can't help being attracted to her. Is this abnormal?
2006-09-09 05:29:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You know, just reading this question made me feel kinda icky. It's one thing to think that she is a cute kid or a pretty little girl. But the fact that you use the word "hot" creeps me out. I'd be very uncomfortable in this relationship if I were you...What would your girlfriend say?
2006-09-09 05:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by yumyum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not say you should despise yourself, but you need to remember she is a minor a child still even though she may look older. If you are not able to control the way you think perhaps you should go speak with a counselor or stop dating her Mother. You have to think down the road what if, the Mother & you get married, move on together and you are still have these unresolved feelings. Anything can happen if you do not control your thoughts. After all the only thing we can control is ourselves & if we lose control we need help.
2006-09-09 12:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jewel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When i was 14 i started seing secretly a 34 year old and didnt see anything wrong in it. Now im 31 and looking back i think its sick. He may as well have been parked outside a school looking for a girlfriend.
2006-09-09 12:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
very abnormal. she is 13! 13 is young. just ******* forget about it or leave ur girlfriend becuase you used the word hot is very ****** up. it can only lead to worse things especially if you become her step dad. just ******* forget about it. it just isnt cool. imagine if the duaghter found out you though she was HOT.
imagine how she would feel. she would lose all trust in you and always be uncomfortable she is only 13 she shouldnt be thought of in that way yet. leace her the hell alone. you attitude will always be different towards her because of your feelings. just ******* leave her alone asshole. you should seek help. it just aint cool
2006-09-09 12:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very abnormal. Seek help. Just thinking about a child in that manner is wrong. Nip this in the bud now.
2006-09-09 12:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by Phyllobates 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you already have this notion about the 13 yr old being hot, I suggest to avoid things getting worse, leave your g/f and go away as far as possible. i fear that if you shld marry your g/f one day, you may end up in bed with her daughter as well.
get out asap !
2006-09-09 12:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You're a guy. Got a sex drive- and I'm sure deep down, every guy probably thinks she's hott! But you said you would never touch her or hurt her or anything, and that's all that matters. Hopefully she gets the hottness from her mama!
2006-09-09 12:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's not sexy.
Pedophilia is gross.
You should not like despise yourself, because that's not sexy.
Just be alarmed of your feelings, touching her would not be sexy.
Thanks for the points, gorgeous.
2006-09-09 12:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by Elitist, much? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Looking and touching are two different things but I would keep this as a little secret from your girlfriend.
2006-09-09 12:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alot of men have feelings of attraction to their teenage daughters friends. This is a way of men trying to feel better about themselves aging and their children growing up.
2006-09-09 13:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by tdm1175 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋