Well yesterday at 3:00 pm he called and we talked for a while but he seemed irritable so we got off the phone and he was like I'll call you later. Then at like noon today he finally called and we talked for 10 minutes and then he was like ok well I'll call you in a FEW HOURS! Well what the heck usually we stay on the phone for at least 2 hours and now he's like avoiding me! I don't know what to do can someone please help?
2006-09-09 05:22:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either A- you annoy the hell out of him and just talk about DRAMA which guys HATE!!! or B- he is cheating on you! or C- he just wants a piece of *** and is waiting for u to give it up!
Take your pick!
2006-09-09 05:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by mrs.dennis.10.6.07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space. Obviously something is bothering him and you need to give him the space and the room to work it through. If you call him repeatedly and hound him about what is wrong, he may even get more angry and distance himself more. So give him room to think about what is going on in his mind or his life, and be supportive. When he calls asks him if there is anything you can do to help him and express your concern for his needs. Once he calms down then you can address the situation, but in a calm measured, non defensive or anxious way.
If it is a pattern however, and he does this more and more, it could be something about the relationship. Until he actually tells you what it is you don't know what is going on. It could be about you, or it could be about his own life - work, school, parents. Sit tight and wait and see. Sometimes we all need space in our lives and from our relationships. It isn't the end of the world. He just may need time to get his head together and sort things through- whatever they are.
2006-09-09 12:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him whats bugging him. if he doesnt tell u give him time and he'll eventually come around. maybe he needs a break, or he could be underpressure.maybe he's planning something nice or even just outta stuff to talk a/b. whatever the reason (good or bad but hopefully good) just be paitent. be strong and let ur heart take courage! Good Luck
Sunshine
2006-09-09 12:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't jump the gun just yet He might just be preoccupied with something that has to get done .We as females all must realize dudes get pms too sometimes the spaces between usual quality time help the relationship to grow .If it doesnt go back to normal in a few days comfront him on it .
2006-09-09 12:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by nealy pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either hiding something, going through a thing, or cheating on you. I think you should surprise him vith a visit and investigate the scene, or call one of his best friends to ask wats going on and tell him 2 give you the details
2006-09-09 12:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is just busy, and he is trying to fit you into a busy schedule. I am sure that it is nothing to fret about. Does he have an e-mail address? Because if so you can talk to him longer on there than on the phone.
2006-09-09 12:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by voice_of_reason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 hours is a long time too stay on the phone even with your BF. he probably doesnt wanna talk that long and i dont blame him.
spend less time on the phone and occupy yourself when your not with him.
2006-09-09 12:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by *JC* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. It's only been a day. It could be for a number of reasons that he isn't feeling chatty - sometimes people just don't feel like talking. Ask him if it worries you so much.
2006-09-09 12:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by aimeelopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has other interests and doesn't know how to tell u but wants to keep u on the side just in case it doesn't work out. Stop being available.
2006-09-09 12:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chance r that he is disturbed due to something but there is also a chance that someone has told him some lies against u ....u better find out coz such a thing once happened with me .....PJ
2006-09-09 12:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by Parjanya Roy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋