Everytime i say I'm not having sex with him no more I end up doing it over again. I have tried and tried to turn my back away from him but I cannot do it. His girlfriend knows what happen between us because I told her, but she still stayed with him and he still having sex with me after the confrontation between me and his girlfriend. I just asked a question about this, alotta answers included what if his girlfriend found out.. Well she do know because i told her. Me and him didn't talk for about a month, but he called back and we started having sex again..So what does that say about him? If he love her he would have stopped having sex with me after the confrontation with me, him and his girlfriend but he didn't he still sexing me.
2006-09-09 05:15:56 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's "sexing you" cause you let him. none of the three of you are too smart. You , cause you know he has someone that he is not going to leave. Him , cause he has a good woman that has stuck with him even tho he cheated. And her because she trusted his cheating azz a second time.
2006-09-09 05:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by Skanky McSkankypants 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for this but you're being stupid....you're in denial. Love has absolutely nothing to do w/your scenario. That is a mistake that women make over and over and then after they realize they have been being used and feel stupid instead of taking responsibility for their actions they blame the guy. Not that the guy is innocent but men can only do what you ALLOW us to do. Once you realize this, you will then know that he is still having sex w/you b/c he can. You and his gf are the only ones who feelings are in involved and both of you are getting hurt while he has the best of both worlds, sex w/you and his gf. Now ask yourself why would he give that up??? The decision is yours, be smart or con't to be stupid???
2006-09-09 05:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what does this say about you????
you should have never started again once it was over. You have no future with him. if its not you then it will be someone else if not already. Think about her if you were in his girlfriend's position. You are allowing him to be the dog that he is. Its only a piece of meat.You should respect yourself more than to allow him to treat you this way.
Give it up! If it were you that he wanted he would be with you he is just have his cake and ice cream.
Be strong and find a man of your own
2006-09-09 05:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just using you to get booty call..... It is just like an married man who just wants sex with another woman and at the end he comes home to his wife... And I still wonder why you still want to be that girl he have sex with and when he's done he zip up his pants and leave until he want another booty call..And yes you confront the girlfriend yet you wonder why she didn't leave him.. A part of your heart wants her to leave him so you can have him because you still wodnering out loud why... He is not faithful and he's a player and a whore.. Why you still can't resist to give it up??? Go find another good man that cares about you not your body..
2006-09-09 05:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are getting played. You don't need to be caught you in that kind of drama. Think about your health. He's doing you and obviously doing her too. That can bring all kinds of STD's to the table.
If he has a girlfriend then you shouldn't have sex with him. Where I come from you would be considered a ho. Not passing judgement, but it doesn't make you look that great.
2006-09-09 05:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please get some self esteem! You should be doing better for yourself than this! No woman deserves to be put in your predicament. You should be offended that this guy wants to sleep with you. How woud you feel if you were his girlfriend. I was in a similar situation and know how it goes. It will only end in tears for you. And her! How would you feel if your father was doing it! You'd be ashamed. I really hope you can build your confidence so as to only make yourself available to guys who are worth the time. If he left her for you one day you would be in her shoes. Trust me I know. GET OUT NOW!!!!! Cut your losses and make new friends that's what I did and am now engaged to an amazing man with a new circle of friends. Not easy but soooo worth it!
2006-09-09 05:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loved his girlfriend he probably wouldn't be cheating on her, no. However, you realise this means that he doesn't love you either?
If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you and you alone. This man is scum and not worth either your, or his girlfriend's attentions. You might also want to question what the fact that you're having sex with a man you know is in a relationship says about YOU.
2006-09-09 05:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if you try to see your situation in different angles, it'll give you the same answer... What you are doing is wrong... And im not judging you... I think you know that yourself. Otherwise, you wouldn't have had asked the question in here. Asking the question officially revealed that you know that what you are doing is wrong... Find someone who's available. You'll find a better partner...
2006-09-09 05:21:26 · answer #8 · answered by athame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u were noticing hes using both of yall u 4 sex n her probally for her money u need 2 ditch him and go out in the world n find u a new bf or "sex partner"
2006-09-09 05:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by CrEaTiVe_ThINkeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he doesn't love EITHER of you. he's using you for sex, and well, i dont know what he's using her for. but it's not love, hun...my suggestion to you would be to stop seeing him asap. come on, girl, you end up having sex with him because you still like him. you gotta get that out of your head...this guy don't love you...and okay, if you think he does, then tell him to break up with his girl and get with you. otherwise, you ain't gonna be giving him none. i mean, what's the point of having sex with him if you know he's not even going to be your boyfriend?
so talk it out, otherwise just leave him. look for a better guy, take your mind off of him!
2006-09-09 05:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋