I'm 16. One of my good friends, is acting differently around me. I came back to school. She starts doing things differently. First day starts resting her arm on my knee. Steals my hat all the time, all of a sudden sits next to me all the time, and hugged me. Riped a hole in one of my shirts, asks for my jewerly once, draws pictures for me. but the dilema see does hug some other guys.It is probably friendly. Also, she was doing some of this before. Played with my jewerly before, stole my hat on occasion but every chance she gets now she says hi or touches me.
im just trying to figure out whether she is being deeply friendly or likes me
also do ask her and risk the friendship if she says no
and i got no idea how to start asking her about this
2006-09-09 05:08:57 · 20 answers · asked by Will 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my problem is whatif shes being friendly and im just seeing this
2006-09-09 05:20:56 · update #1
i will tell u something, she wants u boy. she is trying her hardest to get ur attention in liking her in that way. play back. startle her, run up from behind her and grab her waist before she even knows what happens, she might get it. or tell her do u wanna hang out sometime just u and me for a while. i think she will get it then. if not. play back. flirt a bit too. like the way she puts her arm on your knee, if shes shorter than you, lean on her shoulder, and yawn in her ear like, oh u make such a good resting post. play back. flirt. if u do stuff like that she will know. if she says no, then say ok, but i still owe u for stealing my hat a minute ago! and just begin playing around like friends should.
2006-09-09 05:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that she's flirting with you. Maybe one of these day's you should let her wear your hat or something like that, and just say " you can just meet up with me after school and give it back to me then." If she does meet up with you, take it from there walk her home or something and see what she act's like then. If you think she's interested, then take a chance and ask her out to a movie, or go to the park & hang out just the two of you. If she likes you, maybe she'll mention it then.
2006-09-09 05:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by you_wahoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are girls out there who are like that...go hug one guy and then come back to hug another..but i think you should just ask her..if you guys have been friends for a long time, it wont break the friendship. hopefully it will make it stronger because now you know you can actually talk about that stuff. talk to her privately and ask her....and if she says that she doesnt like you like that...then just ask her to stop because you were getting the wrong idea..i hope it helped
2006-09-09 05:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. More than likely she likes you but is too afraid to tell you because she can't tell that you like her. Give her some hints. Tell her she's cute or when she steals your hat tell her she can keep it. The best thing is to tell her that you like her because if she doesn't like you it's her loss isnt it? Ask her if she likes you like that. I'm sure she will.
2006-09-09 05:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by LoveLyLonEr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be the only guy enjoying her flirtations and affections...a girl who asks for gifts and jewelry is only an opportunist...remain friends and keep it light until you know if she likes you and ONLY YOU...Invest in condoms as it seems she's headed in the direction of opening that door for you...better to be prepared than scared...
2006-09-09 05:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her pull her to the side and say "I was just wondering if you liked me and if u do im sorry but i dont but i just wanna be friends." I hope that helps!
2006-09-09 05:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know she likes you but if you don't feel comfortable in the way she is treating you, you should sit down with her and tell her.if you can't tell her alone then call your budy then tell her the whole truth.
2006-09-09 05:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by ck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt back. all shes doing is flirting, she prolly likes u. dont ask her yet, wait a little while longer.
2006-09-09 05:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by i rawkkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is practising how to flirt on guys she feels safe with.
if you try to hold her close it won't last long because she wants to experience lots of guys.
2006-09-09 05:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she likes u if she says no then thats ok but u never said if u liked her back
2006-09-09 05:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋