I been together with my boyfriend for four years. At first I thought it was going to be just for a while because I was only 16 and didn't took it seriously. I am now 20 and we are still together. So basically I have been with him through all of my adolescence and I have never had the oportunity to date other guys like all of my friends. I really love him but I sometimes freak out when my friends tell me how much we have been together and that I have never been with another guy. Should this be something I need to worry about?
2006-09-09 04:43:05 · 21 answers · asked by Amy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's only something to worry about if it's something that you'll question forever. If your in a healthy happy relationship then you have nothing to worry about at all, on the contrary you should be happy that you have a loving relationship.
Your still young anyway so you have the time to let this relationship progress. They may have had more dates but I'm sure your friends envy you for your relationship and it's wrong for them to make you question your love life.
2006-09-09 04:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't worry. If you truly love your BF then who cares what anyone else thinks.
I think some people are shocked because a relationship such as yours is uncommon. But that just proves the deep love and maturity you two have.
A friend of mine, married her high school sweetheart and they've been married for 10 years, together for a total of 16, have 3 kids and are very, very happy!
I personally, dont think its strange at all...it's pretty sweet! :-)
2006-09-09 04:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by my_lil_buttercups 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldnt worry about it at all. If you love him, thats all that matters. Sometimes these girls that are playing the field, cant find true love. Thats why they are out there usually. You were one of the lucky ones, like me. All my friends that were like that , are still single. I dont regret hooking up when I was young, at all. ...and not getting that chance to meet other guys. I just happen to find the right one sooner than my friends.
2006-09-09 04:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry you've found the guy of your dreams, and your happy. So it shouldn't matter if you've been with other guys it just means that you haven't had to have your heart broken by other men. I think that's great that you to have been together so long and i hope you to last a LOT LONGER
Good luck
2006-09-09 04:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have nothing to worry about. if the relationship is good and it goes well why you should worry? but i tell you girl, dont just jump into a more serious relation, from 16 to 20 you havent got any opportunity to meet somebody..so enjoy more you are still at the prime of your life!
2006-09-09 05:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by pea_1208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is nothing to worry about. Be very thankful that you were able to find the guy that made you happy. That you were obviously content with.
The only way you should worry about it is if you 2 are not happy. Do not worry about what your friends say. If you are happy with your life then do not mess it up!!
2006-09-09 04:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if it worries you, if you r content in the relationship then i dont see a problem, if you feel u r missing out or thinking about other guys well....a commetment thease days is few and far between, if u found the right guy in your life early, good for you! then u dont have to experience all the bull **** that goes with the other
2006-09-09 04:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by starlight1blonde87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you are here asking means you are. i think you want to experience some sort of freedom . it works for some but .........you are asking and i feel you would always feel you missed out so why not take a break and see whats out there. if its real you will know and you need to meet others to compare. to make that call is it really love.
2006-09-09 04:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you're happy and feels comfortable with this guy and he has never given you a reason to not trust him, don't freak out. There's nothing wrong with being with just one guy. There are many freaky guys out there who cheats, abuses, rapes, steals. You're lucky to be with someone who treats you good.
2006-09-09 04:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO DATE LOTS OF GUYS, IF THERE'S NO PROBLEM WITH THE PRESENT ONE? WELL, YOU CAN GO OUT WITH A GROUP OF FRIENDS AND DATE GUYS WHO ARE JUST FRIENDS, IF THE GUY IS TO BE TRUSTED. ANYWAY, FATE WILL DECIDE IF YOU ARE MEANT TO BE OR NOT.. SO DON'T BE BOTHERED BY IT.
2006-09-09 04:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by OnionSkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋