so ive liked this guy for a while, but then we moved to the west coast. i still have feelings for him, what should i do?
2006-09-09 04:41:41 · 20 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl....if he really wants you and knows how you feel about him and both of you are in love. He should be there already.
2006-09-09 04:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're willing to go through the troubles and complications of long-distance relationships, then go right ahead, if you're truly certain about loving and being with this man. Keep in touch and see how it goes. If the road gets bumpy, pull to the side for a second and think things through. Ask yourself, "Do I really like/love him this much to blahblahblah...?" and stuff like that. I know someone close to me who has a relationship with a guy in Italy, and she lives in the middle of the U.S. They've had their troubles and their complications, but still they persist to keep in touch with each other and strive to maintain their relationship. That is a true sign of wanting to be with another so badly that you would put up with all that; that is true love. Love isn't true if you don't pursue your lover to the ends of the Earth, whether he/she resents you or not. For example: you meet a guy in California, but know your life is better without him, although you know he really truly loves you from the bottom of his heart. You take an express train all the way to Maine for all you care, and the instant the train doors open, you see him standing there, doubled-over, panting, with a smile on his face. That is a true example of pursuing true love. Good luck with your long-distance relationship! I hope it works out for you. ^_^
2006-09-09 11:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Display Name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in a long distance relation right now - it is soooo hard - but with internet and 2-way radios it is managable. There definately is a huge trust factor. If you are not already in a serious relation then I think i would look a little closer to home if i was you-it is very very difficult and expensive not only to see each other but to communicate with 2-ways, cell phones, telephones etc.
2006-09-09 13:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who recently moved to Southern California and has a boyfriend in New York .She met him while she was still living in NY. They have been going good and have been together for 5 months. So its really kinda hard to tell
2006-09-09 11:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by matrx1221 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Jess, that Dude is Geographically unsuitable, unless he has a pile of cash, like the Judge said next CASE!
2006-09-09 11:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner & i had a long distance relationship. There were 300 miles between us. We persevered & now lived together for 5 months now ! Don't give up on it, they do work out.
2006-09-09 11:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im in the same boat.. Guy i work with his uncle came to town from norfolk virginia and i live in louisiana.. spent time with him for a week and he had to go back cause hes in the navy.. well he considers me as his girlfriend and of course i like him a whole lot.. i text him everyday... its just not the same.. maybe something good will come our way huh??
2006-09-09 11:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out how to get 3000 miles closer to him
2006-09-09 11:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you can talk to him on the phone or e-mail him or even write letters you can make a long distance realation ship but dont worry somthing will happen
2006-09-09 11:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by yeseniaocenasek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id move on, long distant relationships are so hard.
2006-09-09 11:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋