I don't want to mess up our friendship, if it isn't gunna work out in the end.
2006-09-09 04:38:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well shorty its up to u weather or not u wanna tell..r just keep it from him..but u will always have deep feeling for him....so what u should do is just let him know what ur feeling...tell him very easy..and see what he say about it ok shorty..if he dosent like it tell him you was just playing around ok..but i dont think he would act different around cause you and him being friends for long time..well just tell him ok bye now.
2006-09-09 04:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by maddan_360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very tough decision..
he could feel the very same way about you.
But it is very diffacult once you are just friends with a person and then if you become lovers IF it don't work out,it is hard to go back to the way things were..Not because you would hate each other but,it would seem hard to find that old self that was just a friend to the person,so the feeling is actually a very confusing one..
But if you truly Love him just talk and see how he feels and let him know that you don't want the friendship hurt if it don't work out..
I think in the end this is a decision only you can make..
cuz if you don't go for it you will always ask what if ?
I wish you luck
2006-09-09 11:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by steve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is single, and he has let be known to you. You should be okay. Just take the next step. I'm sure it has crossed his mind too. The question you need to ask yourself is "how shy am I going too be about this situation?" Are you going to tell him or not? Or are you going to wait on him to make the first move?
I from time to time I think what it would be like to be with some of the women I know and come in contact with. Don't worry about messing anything up. You need to worry about missing a oportunity to be the girlfriend of someone you really like.
2006-09-09 11:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really good friends you should be able to talk about this without it hurting your relationship. One of the things you should talk about is if you do become more than friends will you still have a friendship if you break up.
2006-09-09 11:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you want to live the rest of your life wondering what if you ended up together if you let this pass? life is too short, im sure you already have a lot of 'what if's' in your life, dont let this be pass up. yes it may ruin your friendship but at least you gave it a try right? at least somehow at that moment you did what you think was best and what you felt was best... goodluck!!!
2006-09-09 11:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like asking, how do I bet money without the risk of losing any? It's not possible to win in this situation if you aren't willing to risk that. You have to ask yourself this: am I willing to be his friend while I watch other girls date him? If you are, you might wanna leave things alone. If not, you are definately going to wanna roll the dice on him.
2006-09-09 11:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bein up front is the way to go with most guys. Do not expect us to get stuff from a hint, we are a rather dense bunch.
2006-09-09 11:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really your friend then he won't break your friendship if you tell him. There's a chance he might like you too!
2006-09-09 11:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, if you know he likes you, you ******' suck for not telling him, and you probably know he does right? Hmmm...
You probably know if he likes you or not, either way, tell him because he could be wondering when he's going to get some of that sweet @ss of yours!!!
2006-09-09 11:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by bunbury 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that and it's working out great! Because we were such good friends and he didn't want to stop being friends.
TELL HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And i wish you all the luck in the world.
2006-09-09 11:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋