Hey, all. I'm 24 years old and still haven't had my first date. I'm 6'3, fit,
and speak 3 languages. I don't understand why I get rejected when I'm a lot smarter and gifted than most of these girls' bfs. I think I must be a loser in the game of love. I need love in my life with a cute girl.
Everybody in my family wants me to date fat girls, but they are not
physically attractive to me. Am I loser?
2006-09-09 04:32:33 · 39 answers · asked by Matt D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, not a loser, but you are superficial. There are a lot of women out there that are not fat, but are smart and gifted in their own right. However, you say you need love in your life with a cute girl. REALLY? Is that the only requirement? Cuteness? That is a little shallow. You should try for compatibility for true happiness.
2006-09-09 04:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lose the ego mate. The answer to your question is yes you are a loser if you think you are better or smarter than most girls boyfriends. No girl likes a guy who thinks that way. Most girls like a genuine down to earth type of guy who can be fun, easy to get along with and whos warm,loving,open and honest. Yes it is great to speak 3 languages, fit etc but plastic people are lonley people so pull your head in. When you meet a nice girl in the first sentance do you say "Hi I'm Jo and I speak 3 languages and I'm better than your boyfriend" ? Think about it and see what happens.
2006-09-09 04:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Fifi6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I am sorry you are so sad. But I guess you are better than those guys. You are more intelligent than they are. It's cool if you speak 3 languages. May I ask which languages do you speak?
I hope someone will appreciate you, as you are a valuable person.
Though I have the same thoughts that I am a loser.....
this answer is from a girl
2006-09-09 04:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by Nordicfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try so hard. Sometimes the people in our circle just aren't the right ones or your perfect match is waiting in the wings ready to make her entry. Just go about doing your thing---get involved in sports, talent groups or activity that will help you bring out the best in you and also help you meet likeminded girls. Develop clean habits, have a sense of humour, talk intelligent, develop opinions, cultivate decent friends, enjoy the living and someone will be attracted to you for the person you are inside and not just the height or languages.
2006-09-09 04:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by itsmehuh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, youre not a loser. You just havent found the right girl yet. Dont give up, shes out there. Dont rush it either, my brother did that and took the first thing that looked at him, now hes been miserable for the past 15 yrs...he married her and now doesnt know how to get rid of her without hurting her.
2006-09-09 04:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are not a loser. I wish I were as tall as you are and speak as many languages as you do, too. You have to know the fact that smart girls are hard to find. They will find you more attractive than others do. You just need a girl who is on the same intelligence level as yours is.
2006-09-09 04:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright man here is some things that i can tell you. not all girls want a smart guy some or them just want someone to talk to and others want a smart guy. It takes time for you to find the right one. I am not the type of guy anyone wants but i still manage to get a girl because i find out what they like and do whatever they want me to. I have alot of trouble with them but i get the problems worked out and that is all you need to do be what they want and you might get lucky and i dont mean it that way. I ment thast you might find that one just for you and that you might have them for the rest of your life. i hope all goeds well for you and that you finally find that one for you. oh and just cause you you cant find that one now doesn't mean you are a loser it just takes some more time for others than others.
2006-09-09 04:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are going about it in a wrong way. Because you are not a loser, you just need to think of what to say to girls so that you are not a jerk or demeaning to them. Don't use pick up lines except as a joke, and don't have sex before marriage or get her extremely drunk. Follow that and you will go far.
2006-09-09 04:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by voice_of_reason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it! You are not a "loser!"
All you have to do is take a walk and talk to at least 12 other souls
you meet.
Remember, you are only 6 degrees away from knowing every soul
on our planet!
Have fun but be safe!
2006-09-09 04:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out more and find your type and look for the one that is screaming your type no you not a loser but you need to know what type fits you not someone that is good for your family
2006-09-09 04:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋