I liked one girl in office and we usually use to talk through eyes but now she is going to engage with somebody else.
When I heard I became restless and I realize am in love with her after few months.
Should I now tell her everything and convince her to re-think of her engagement?
2006-09-09 04:26:48 · 16 answers · asked by sum4Ans 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at this point,no. If you thought you were taling w/ your eyes you apparently weren't, or you just got something out of her that wasn't there. At this point, you're being selfish by telling her how you feel if she's goingto get married. if you really care for her jsut tell her you're happy for her and hope she is happy w/ him. You missed your chance,sorry
2006-09-09 04:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by lonely_dove04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to say that you should NOT tell her.
Here are my reasons why...
1. If you mostly talk through "eyes" then there really is no way of knowing that you truly love her. You have to get to know her as a person. You have to romantically know her to make that sort of judgement.
2. If she is getting engaged to somebody else, obviously she is already in love and in a serious relationship. While you on the other hand, sound like you have a crush on her. No need to complicate her life right now when it is supposed to be a happy occasion for her.
3. You have known her for a few months. I'm sure her and her partner have been together for quite awhile. You will more than likely be turned down as you can't come close to her feelings for her partner. No need to put yourself through that pain.
If I were you then I would forget her and find someone that is not already in a relationship.
2006-09-09 11:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by lorelei.siren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "talk through eyes"? Have you ever had anything going on with this girl other than being co-workers and being nice to each other? Obviously if she is engaged, she has been in a relationship for sometime and is in love with the man she is going to marry. I think you misread her, and if there was something going on, she was obviously not being faithful to the man she was already with. If that is the case, do you want a woman who would sneak around behind your back. This is either one or the other and no matter which it is I suggest you find yourself a different girl and get over this quickly.
2006-09-09 11:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First try to know how good her relationship is with that guy. Build up a better friendship with her but she shouldn't feel that u like her, play the innocent thief. See if she's showin certain amount of interest in u. I advice u to propose her a week b4 her marriage, until then just build up.U like the girl go for her. If nothin she may come to u , in case her marriage doesnt work out and they split in a year or so. But remember a girl who can break off her engagement like that can do the same to u. Do what u feel, if u wanna go 4 it do as i say , if no remain good friends anyways u never klnow
2006-09-09 11:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a day late and a dollar short on this.
Why should she rethink an engagement to someone she likely knows extremely well and loves to take a chance on someone that she hasn't had a conversation with?
How can you be in love with anyone that you don't even know?
I suggest you keep your mouth shut, learn from this experience and move on.
2006-09-09 11:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No don't do that. Don't hurt the other person. If she accepts the proposal the other person may learn the truth and hurt you. Would it worth that. You may have feelings for her but let her go. If she accepts you she may begin to compare the relationship with what she had before and things may not work in your favor and you may end up unhappy. Find someone for yourself and build the relationship. Please put Jesus first. Ask his guidance each day.
2006-09-09 12:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with all this eyes talk do you really think you got a chance? or is it just that you see a challenge . if you liked her why didn't you speak instead of using your eyes. i think this one you should let go. say you told her and she was not intrested then you have to work with her. you could talk about general things and sort of scope it out. but i think its a slim chance go for it if you don't care to look foolish.
2006-09-09 11:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch upcoming episodes of "The Office".
2006-09-09 11:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by gabluesmanxlt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,this is a tough one dude!
Maybe you should talk to her and ask her
how she feels about you? have you ever
really talked to her before?
If not,maybe you should try to?
You don't really love her if you haven't really
dated or spent time together,but if you like
her this much,try to talk with her.
2006-09-09 11:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your know if she has still not engaged go to her and tell her what you think about her then say what is happening to you if she is getting engaged this takes really a lot of guts
2006-09-09 11:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by aksh 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋