My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday...I have no idea why though..she told me why on the phone, but I couldn't really understand what she said. I guess she told me she didn't have the same feelings for me she had when we first started dating. I realized that I had been missing ALOT of clues..I gave her a present a couple of days ago...I had left a really long love letter in it for her..the next day she never made reference to it..and I had to ask her if she liked the present or not.....on Thursday she sorta acted like I wasn't there..walking to class I said hi and she started speeding up a little...enough so I couldn't walk fast enough to keep up so I had to run a little....then she started telling me she was frustrated about something...then the next day she called me and made her friend tell me she was breaking up with me...I really don't understand what's going on...I called her friend later and asked her to talk to me about it..then my girlfriend called and told me why she did
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it..and then blew me off to talk to her friend while I was on the line..talking about who she was going to take to the Homecoming dance and what not....are relationship was 4 months..should I talk to her??? I still have feelings for her and I'm completely miserable..
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It's also my birthday today..so thats adding on to the pain....
2006-09-09 04:22:34 · 21 answers · asked by RKO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry for asking 3 times in a row..I just need some advice..I feel a little bit better...
2006-09-09 04:23:05 · update #1
wtf_ people, I don't think I scared her with the love letter...I gave them to her all the time..she told me she liked them...I just noted the letter becuase she would usually write back or tell me she liked it...
2006-09-09 04:46:31 · update #2
only really time will help you get over it sorry.
i am sorry you feel so bad but you will get over it it seems to me she was not adult enough to do it face to face even though i understand you were going to class so are obviously young.
also this is probably not going to be the first and last time this will happen.
she was obviously not the right girl for you and you will soon no doubt being young find some one else keep you chin up and dont let her see that you are upset.
happy birthday by the way
2006-09-09 04:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by sharrifarri 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-05 21:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with my bf yesterday although I really love him. The thing is: People come and go, but the way we should get over this is start thinking rationally. We don't need someone who doesn't want us in their life, right? So, just change the perspective. if she doesn't want you, why would you want her?Of course, you should allow some time to pass and then maybe arrange for coffee so that she can tell you what the reasons were, so that you don't repeat the same mistakes again. This answer has no beginning and no end, i know. Hope it helps a bit. I'm emotional about this issue today and i just feel and need to say something........:(
2006-09-09 04:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by LadyPandora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about that, but take it from a female. She propably already has someone else she either wants to date or has been already seeing someone else and now wants things to get a little more serious with this other person. Girls tend to work that way, and then are not clever about breaking up with the other person.
I know it may be hard, but concentrate on yourself to right one comes along. You know the one that you treat you like you deserve.
2006-09-09 16:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by tazsag31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy b'day ! cheer up and celebrate.u really think this is worth spoiling ur b'day?well easier said than done.i understand.everyone has a reason to behave the way they do.may be she has realized that she was only attracted to u or may be she has found a new love.let her go.as u will be forcing urself on her if u still try to talk.move on.noone dies of a heartbreak.u will survive this.do whatever makes u happy.distract urself.try and stay happy.take care !
2006-09-09 04:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know perfectly how you're feeling right now, my girlfriend left me a few weeks ago, btw
Just put her aside for a while, have fun, etc. If she really wants you she'll come back to you. Don't beg her to come back.. when she'll see that you can live without her she'll understand you are a REAL man who has no problem finding a girl. Then you'll have more women than a rock star!
Hope this helps
2006-09-09 04:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Owl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry for you. I know how much that hurts.
I personally believe you should try to think of the bad times you spent with your ex instead of thinking of the good times you both shared.
That would help you get over it and start looking for a better girl.
2006-09-09 05:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude---------A lot more fishys in the ocean. Some will respect you and love you. I have had bittchy (pain in the ***) gal pals and glad they are in the past. Be glad you are free to look around and make a better choice next time.
2006-09-09 04:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by super stud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, bud. Looks like this time was a strike out, but trust me, there is that perfect person out there for you; she just wasn't the one: don't let it get you down.
2006-09-09 20:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry 4 dat but jus try 2 4get bout that person..
2006-09-09 04:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by sweetkisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋