my ex boyfriend asked me out and i was the one who broke up with him the last time...he is really nice and sweet he hangs out with some of my friends but my other friends are the stuck up kind and think i shouldint go out with him because they dont like him and say im just going to use him but i wouldint...what should i doo?
2006-09-09 04:17:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
use your own mind. if you really like him, then go for it.
2006-09-09 04:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a nice guy you should not have broken up with him in the first place and if fate is giving you another shot at what you messed up in the first place then avail it, at least you know this guy. You would never know what the future boy friend is going to be like, as the saying goes a bird in hand is better than two in the bushes.
And as far as friends are concerned it is your life, they won't live it you have to, as long as you like him you should go for it, suppose you find a new boy friend and some of your friends do not like him then are you going to dump him too.
You can not please everyone.
2006-09-09 11:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by johnyBgood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to your so called friends. They dont run your life do they? If you really like him for the person he is then go back out with him. Just be sure you really like him. Dont let anyone tell you who you can date. Maybe they are just jealous of you having a man. Be your own person and do what you feel is the right thing. good luck
2006-09-09 11:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about your past relationship did it work out why did you break up with him for the first time? i had a friend that just did that and she broke the guys heart AGAIN!!! is it worth going though that. is it what your really want. don't listen to your friends listen to what you want. if you really like him go for it and if they are true friends they will accept you for you not for some guy your with and if they think your gonna use him that's none of there business its your relationship and if he puts up with it then that's his fault. in the end make sure your happy!
2006-09-09 11:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by angelbaby17cbrh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with him in the first place. If it was because of your stuck up friends then you should re-examine their friendship. If it was because they saw something amiss and warned you about it and you saw wisdom too and broke up----then what's the point of getting back together?
You seem confused---check out your friends, the exboyfriend and yourself for sincerity---and then decide what to do.
2006-09-09 11:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by itsmehuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you need to do. ALWAYS do exactly as your friends tell you to do. You may even want to take a vote to know precisely how to make the decision. They'll always look out for your best interests--expecially the stuck up ones.
2006-09-09 11:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your friends think you're just gonna use him, then that means that's probably what happened last time you two went out. So in that case, save the poor guy the trouble and just find someone lower-class. Doesn't sound like you deserve a decent guy. If that's what your friends say about you then................... wow.
2006-09-09 11:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel like doing, if you go out with him, you dont need your friends permission to do it. and also it depends on why you broke up with him before.
2006-09-09 11:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to ur heart, its not ur friends who r dating him, its u and its up to u if u want to say yes or not. good luck
2006-09-09 11:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all up to you. who are your friends to tell you what to do anyway?i say go for it! goodluck
2006-09-09 11:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by melley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋