Why is it when you have sex with a close friend things between you always change?

Question

This includes dating also everything seems cool until you give it up then all the courting stops and your casual dates turn into casual booty calls why

Answer 1

because its crossing the line, once you take the step from friends to any type of relationship, you changed the playing field, and when the field changes, the game has a different point of view. I hate to put it like this, but look at it in a musical perspective. If you play a violin outside, the sound carries through the wind, when you play it inside, it echos, when you add acoustic tile, its crisp and accurate. Same basic concept, changing the details, changes the tune.

Answer 2

Ok, I usually just attack the female who asks this type of question, but I will break it down for ALL women right here, right now.

1) Men between the ages of 12 and 35 are primarily concerned with removing your clothing for sexual purposes. The better you look, the more we will want to screw you, but even if you're not that hot and we've had sex with you before, we will do the booty call when drinking.

2) Us men between those ages ALWAYS have a woman we LOVE and want to spend our lives with and we treat her with respect, because she is always the girl who DOESN'T let just anyone into her pants. HOWEVER, even having such a gal as our main woman, we are ALWAYS up for some side action with the females referrence above in point 1. And ladies, WE GET PLENTY OF IT. Do not fool yourselves. You think you're the ones giving it up to that special guy who leaves you. Well, I'm that special guy, but I always take my love back to the house. You are not getting the best of me/us. It is the other way around, you just don't know it and never will.

3) Some women think they will "get even" with their cheating boyfriend or husband. That is a HUGE mistake. You see, we DO NOT CARE what your reason for having the sex is/was, the fact that you lay down and let various men dump their sperm all over you is unacceptable, PERIOD. So, whatever the reason you do it is irrelevant and places you automatically and in some cases, FOREVER, into the class of BOOTY CALL GIRL. It may not be fair, but that is how it is.

So, my advice to females is this: If you want to have it as good as possible, wait until you meet the right guy to give up your sex. And yes, that means you will have to know him for more than 2 hours, 2 days, 2 months or even a few years before you spread your legs and let his sperm touch your skin. If you make him wait and work for it, you will find that his external booty calls will be far lower than if you just give it up after a date or two, no matter how "right" it feels to you.

Make him wait and work and you will be the woman he brings his love home to.

Sorry, but the above is the truth. Some men do not even realize it, but the behvior above is genetic.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Dunno why this happens. It's your call to how it comes around. Maybe you shouldn't have dropped yer nickers !

Answer 5

dont know