I told her i have no feelings for her, but she says we can still go out even if she knows that I dont like her, its gonna be a boring relationship if I do date her.
2006-09-09 04:11:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes you just have to get mean about it. You sound like me, you try to do things and be nice so you don't hurt anyone's feelings, but there's a point where you have to draw the line, get a little mean about it, put your phone down and firmly tell her she needs to stop cause its going no where. If you want me as a friend, Im there, but this pestering needs to end now! If she's any type of friend at all, she ll accept that as an answer, and you ll still be friends tomorrow.
2006-09-09 04:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is normal human instinct. If an animal likes another animal but the other animal doesn't like the animal, that animal will still go for it. The other animal never seems to like the other animal so in other words, just do not go for her. I had a case like that also, some girl likes me and I didn't like her. I never seen her ever again after elementary school. I told her that I'll be her boyfriend if she is a couple million light years away from me which isn't possible on earth.
2006-09-09 11:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Palm her off on a mate of yours. Is she hot ? does she have nice boobs ? If your not doing anything at the time and she looks good on your arm why not. Hey she obviously likes you which is half way there. Also I always find I get hit on more when I have a girlfriend. Funny that! If she doesn't make you look any better or is FAT now to a UK citizen most US women are what we class as clinical obese. Anyway keep her sweet she may have some HOT friends.
2006-09-09 11:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes you that much, and you don't right now.
Pump her and dump her. What the hell, we have to live up to our dog like reputation once in a while.
But really, never back down from a girl that likes you. You never know when you will be needed someone in your life. Mainly when you haven't had a girlfriend in a while. You never know, she just may be your future wife someday down the road. Or she may just want sex, but never pass on a women's wants. And most important, be respectful to her even though you don't like her right now.
2006-09-09 11:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT date her and lead her on, when you know there is no possibilty of a relationship. Tell her y'all can be friends, but at this time and moment, you are not willing to be in a relationship with her. Say it's nothing against her, it's just how you feel.
2006-09-09 11:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would simply talk to her as a real person and let her know your not interested, say "its not you it me"(which is true) because if you try to make her jealous/ignore her she will probaly like you more so therefore you don't want to hurt anyones feelings because you would not want anyone hurting yours. Be nice/real about because one day you might end in the same situation with the tables turned.
2006-09-09 11:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice not a jerk and just repeat that your not interested. She'll pick someone else soon enough. Maybe write her a note to leave you alone. Usually if you say you already have someone you like they will leave you alone.
2006-09-09 11:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really strange... tell you what?? i think you should be friends with her, and just show her that you love her so much. few days later, do insult her in public, and ignore her from that very day. i think it might work...
Maybe this suggesstion sucks... I know this way is quite slow... but it might take effect...
all the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-09 11:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't encourage her at all. She might take being a friend as a wrong sign. Just keep your distance...but be a gentleman.
2006-09-09 11:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you talked to her about your feelings that's all you can do.Try flirting and dating another girl. Show her you aren't interested at all.
2006-09-09 11:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋