My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday...I have no idea why though..she told me why on the phone, but I couldn't really understand what she said. I guess she told me she didn't have the same feelings for me she had when we first started dating. I realized that I had been missing ALOT of clues..I gave her a present a couple of days ago...I had left a really long love letter in it for her..the next day she never made reference to it..and I had to ask her if she liked the present or not.....on Thursday she sorta acted like I wasn't there..walking to class I said hi and she started speeding up a little...enough so I couldn't walk fast enough to keep up so I had to run a little....then she started telling me she was frustrated about something...then the next day she called me and made her friend tell me she was breaking up with me...I really don't understand what's going on...I called her friend later and asked her to talk to me about it..then my girlfriend called and told me why she did
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it..and then blew me off to talk to her friend while I was on the line..talking about who she was going to take to the Homecoming dance and what not....are relationship was 4 months..should I talk to her??? I still have feelings for her and I'm completely miserable..
2006-09-09 04:09:09 · 7 answers · asked by RKO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's also my birthday today..so thats adding on to the pain....
2006-09-09 04:09:45 · update #1
Happy Birth day Zack. You love that girl very much and it sure is a bad birth day present you got. You know you should try talking to her . By what you say it seems to me she has been trying to hide something from you. She had been crying too. May be she was under some pressure which she could not tell anything about to you. Go talk to her. There will be momentary pain but in the end ther shall be some sort of relief.
2006-09-09 04:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ginna Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 22:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First Happy Birthday . we have all been there if she didn't feel the same way any more you can bet she has her eye on another guy. Trouble is there is not much you can do if you cant let her go you look pathetic to her and that is not attractive. I say the best cure is GET a brand new girlfriend.
2006-09-09 04:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by setter505 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...maybe the love letter killed it. could of freaked her out dude!
i know you wanna talk to her but your chances of getting her back dont sound good. if you look at it, she doesnt wanna go out with you anymore, doesnt have those feelings for you - what you wrote.
it is a killer when you still have feelings. the best tip i can give you is thats its done man. its sucks but try and suck it in. when you break up, the first week is the toughest, feelings and **** hit ya hard. best to just hang with ya mates and talk about it. after 2-3 week it cools down if you dont succumb to temptation and try and contact her. its also makes things easier if you put all the stuff that reminds you of her in a box and put it in the attik.
2006-09-09 04:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU !!!! and as for that trifling *****,,,,FORGET HER. shes no good for you at all. There are too many girls to be being sad over her. If she dont want you then screw her ......move on......Nexttttttt is what i would say. Act like you dont even know her in school. i know it hurts when someone breaks your heart,,but there will be many more of that if you are still young. GO HAVE A GOOD DAY FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY AND DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT HER.
2006-09-09 04:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and move on. Sounds like you really let yourself fall hard. Help someone else. Helping others helps your own pain
2006-09-09 04:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry for that to happen right before your b-day. but i think you should move on and find someone who will love you.
2006-09-09 04:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋