Here is the low down. I have a girlfriend in the states and i am currently in korea. do i trust her or do i worry that she is doing something behind my back? i have had a rought time with this girl from the start. what would you do?
2006-09-09 03:53:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may be best to let the relationship go for now and just remain friends. Long distance relationships are tough to maintain. You said you had a rough time with her from the start, but did not state anything about what the problem was. If it was her being unfaithful to you, I would definetly let her go. If it is other problems, which all relationships have, maybe you can work through this. My boyfriend (on our 6th yr) was away for 2 years and it was hard. We did actually split up for 6 of the months he was away, but worked things out before he got home and are still together now. Sometimes you just need to take a few steps back to get a clearer picture of what you really want. Good luck to you either way.
2006-09-09 04:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's no trust in the relationship, there is no relationship at all. It's even harder when it's a long distance relationship. Since you two had a rough relationship from the beginning, maybe it's just not meant to be. Break it off clean and move on. You're too young to keep worrying on something that shouldn't be. You should want to be with someone that makes you happy and feel loved.
2006-09-09 03:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah get rid of her then get back together again when you come back. Women are the root of all evil. There are only a handful of women out there that can be trusted. I would just let things go then when you get back you can hook up again and it won't matter that you fooled around in Korea and that she fooled around back here in the states because you aren't together
2006-09-09 03:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by ThePlayboy0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question only you can answer. Either you trust her or you don't. Answer that question and the rest becomes obvious.
I can tell you from experience that long distance relationships can work and close proximity relationships are no guarantee of fidelity.
Two last thoughts:
Does she trust you?
Is there any reason why she shouldn't?
2006-09-09 04:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is hard. But if you feel like you can trust her then wait but if I were you I wouldn't be positive and if you are going to live apart for a long time then i think its best to break up with her . But again if you like her sooo much then u need to be really sure before u make this decision.
2006-09-09 04:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by baby faced satan woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u think that she is cheating or doing sum thing behind ur back and u had a rough time in the beginning with her then just break up with er if u cant trust her @ all
2006-09-09 03:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by Ally. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly speaking, if you dont trust this girl then there is no meaning left in having continuing this relationship. Trust is the basis of any relationship. If there is no trust then there is no relationship.
2006-09-09 03:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by ritz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a question you have to answer, not us. I certainly would NOT worry about her. . . it's not worth it. If she is communicating with you regularly that should tell you something. If she is not, that communicates as well. I would not check up on her with my friends. If you don't trust her, forget about her and start over. It's not worth the mental gyrations and anguish.
2006-09-09 03:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ditch her. I was in Japan for a while and if Korea is the same there should be plenty of hot, hot girls that would love to get some American loving.
2006-09-09 03:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by apostate03 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you dont trust her then you cant have a relationship with her. If your fear is what is causing you to worry that she might cheat, talk to her about it. If shes given you reason not to trust her, move on
2006-09-09 03:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋