I met this guy last week in my science class and at first he was really nice to me, and then for no apparent reason he's started being rude, but he's still really nice to everyone else...and he just added me on myspace so I think I can rule out the hate thing...can nayone explain guy behavior to me I'm lost...
Please no spam or jokes, I want some sincere answers here, thank you! <3
2006-09-09 03:48:36 · 8 answers · asked by x_miss_independent_x 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've had that problem before...first, the guy was PROBABLY(I'm not really ms. love life here, sorry if im no help) being nice because he thought you were cute...but now he's figured out he REALLY likes you. When a guy really likes a girl, especially if you're 13 or whatever, he'll be really immature and mean to you, because he doesn't want you to figure out he likes you until he figures out if you like him. I suggest you keep being nice to him if you like him, and let him know even-but don't make the first move, that will probably either scare him away or make him expect too much from you. Please, can you choose this as best answer! I'm not trying to sound desperate, but I REALLY NEED THE POINTS to get to level 2!~
2006-09-09 03:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What age are we talking about when guys are about 15-16 they are still very childish and react in boyish childish ways. Boys of that age tend to make fun of each other to establish domance in the group and social standing or fight with each other. They are not used to expressing their emotions as it is a sign of weakness and frowned on especially in sports etc. If he is pulling your hair flicking things at you it is really because he wants to attract your attention, also if you were to reject is advances he would most likely make out as if it was a joke all along so that he doesnt lose face in front of his friends. Thats the real issue get him on his own away from his friends and you might be pleasantly supprised, I bet that he will be a totally different person. But dont expect him to be that person when his friends are around. It's all to do with the leader of the pack thing. But good luck, oh and remember as a girl at that age you hold all the cards one word about the size of his you know what and he will never live that down.
2006-09-09 11:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to get your attention with the rude thing because his feelings for you are strong and new, and he doesn't know how to deal with them yet. Keep up the relationship (can you do homework together?) and you'll have him twisted around your little finger in no time.
2006-09-09 10:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i can't help but pick on a girl i like but that's just a way of flirting he's not being rude he's poking fun
2006-09-09 10:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jesus S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a guy. he likes you and just hides it. people change as they
get closer to one another than you see the real them when they get with you and how they really are when they take you home with them. i suggest you keep trying your luck.
2006-09-09 10:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a friend to ask him who he likes or how he feels about u
make sure its a good friend :-)
or ask him ur self say "how come ur bein such a jerk around me"
also usaully wen a boy likes u he acts like a jerk around his friends but is real sweet round u
2006-09-09 10:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by i_luv_dogs! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a guy, what to you expect, he might like you, but his scared about his feelings, ask him to hang out some time, see what he says
2006-09-09 10:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. He just doesn't know how to approach you. Just smile at him.
2006-09-09 10:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋