I feel really sad and I'm nosey so on myspace (myspace is an evil b*tch) so I was reading some of his and this girl's comments and they are you know a lil frustrating especially if he's all like "Hi lover" and she's all like "now we get to spend more you and me time".. okay not cool... how can i tell if he's cheating on me and or wants me to leave him? I don't know I'm very sad and I discussed this with one of mny close friends and he agrees.. that he has no idea what's going on because he thought they were trust worthy too... I don't know what to think any more please no rude comments.. I love him very much so
2006-09-09 03:45:50 · 14 answers · asked by fersitf 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I kno wwho this girl it is and he only does it to one.. he's like they're best freinds or so they say because all signs point to that and he changed like in a weird way.. I don't know what to think...
2006-09-09 04:11:32 · update #1
Above all, keep your dignity and always take the high road in a situation where you feel lost and don't know an immediate solution. Always do the right thing and do not act like the betrayers. If you are a logical person and you think someone is cheating on you or abusing you then you are probably right.
Men cannot stand to be ignored but you cannot pretend to ignore. It's the same as, saying what you mean and meaning what you say. You can play tough but somehow they sense when it's a bluff but they sure as heck know when you are dead serious. These things take time and you might end up single again. You're not alone, take comfort in knowing that your situation is not unique in the scheme of things. You've heard many times you're better off but I know it still hurts but this too shall pass. Righteousness is on your side if you make sure to maintain your dignity and don't act like those two fools. I believe in giving them enough rope to hang themselves then they have nobody to blame BUT themselves. I was there one time only and it was ugly. Try as they might to bait me in order to justify their bad behavior, I kept my head held high and let them make utter asses of themselves with no help from me.
Linda
2006-09-09 03:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Linda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, cheating can be an array of things, it does not mean he has to be intimate with someone. There are evident lines of respect and boundaries in a realshonship that should not be crossed, so if you are uncomfortable with those comments let him know. A simple "hello" "how are you" "showin some love" is one thing, but anything more than that is wrong. If he cant respect that, then this is just a sign of more to come! I would jump ship! As far as the nosey part.......you and him are commited to one another, in a partnership together, that is so your business, besides myspace is the worldwide internet, you are pretty much putting your buiness on blast how can you expect people not to look, read, is that not the point of myspace to meet people, see what they are about? Thus the "About Me" section.
2006-09-09 03:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by nmaponte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously your gut feelings is telling you that he's probably cheating. And yes, myspace is a BiaTch. Why don't you confront him. You have to be honest with him and tell him what you read on myspace. He'll probably think that you're invading his privacy, but don't let him change the subject. If he said that those comments are just from friends, I doubt he's telling the truth anyways. Men wants to show off that he's being wanted by women. It just sounds to me that he isn't respecting you much by dissing you like that. I'd say talk to him and ask him what he wants from the relationship. But be prepared for the results.
2006-09-09 03:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, you KNOW the answer to the question but don't want to face it. Love is a choice and if you love people who do not respect, honor, and love you back, but hope they'll change, you are in for a lifetime of bad roads. We teach people how to treat us and if folks can do as he's done, they will. I understand you are sad and afraid of being lonely, but require those in your circle to treat you properly. You'll find good folks and the bad dogs will go away.
2006-09-09 04:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter whether or not he is cheating on you. You don't trust him. Follow that inner voice, honey - it's there for a reason!A year from now you will wonder what you ever saw in him. You are not confident about his love for you. You are worried that he might want you to leave him.................ASK HIM! If he says yes - then your torment is over and you can get out there and find someone who loves you. Life is too short to waste on blokes like this!
2006-09-09 03:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even as he with out word has activities that he in no way had to do before...even as he avoids your calls, or isn't there to take them, if his ideas-set in route of you is replacing, if he tells you he "basically desires some ME time" in case you stay at the same time a number of those are signs and indications too... a million. decrease want to be with you sexually. 2. with out word tries new sexual positions. 3. operating late more desirable typically. 4. Mysterious telephone calls. 5. receives indignant once you seem on the cellular telephone, pager, or laptop. Is secretive of such. 6. scent of body spray on their clothing. 7. Takes a bath once he comes homestead. 8. you discover hairs or different gadgets on his body or in his possessions. 9. starts taking more desirable care with his visual attraction. 10. Accuses you of dishonest. 11. he alterations his popular recurring with out reason or reason.
2016-11-25 22:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks. I suggest you break up with him and get over it. He is cheating on you. If he loves you the same way you love him, he wouldn't cheat on you. If I love my girl a lot, I wouldn't cheat on her. I would stay loyal and faithful to her. Go find someone who will love you the same way you would love your Mr. Right.
2006-09-09 04:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ran into the same problem wit my husband....but wat i did was that i went under his name n was talking to these gurls as if i was him .....but the real truth was that these gurl new him from when he was younger so they tohugght he was single...so i told him if he didnt tell them that he was married that i was gonna leave him...so just dont be afraid.... if he cant respect u enough to not be talking to other females online then he is not worthy of u ...:) good luck ....
2006-09-09 03:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your man and tell him how you feel and then take it from their if he tries to blow you off by not wanting to talk about it then he don't want to be with you and that shows that he don't give a fluck about your feelings
2006-09-09 03:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go under his name and try to find out what you need to know by being him. if he is cheating its time to let go and find someone who would treat you better, or you can confront him on it too.
2006-09-09 03:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋