I have a little problem. I like my friend. I made a big point about just being friends with him, and now hes all I think about. I cant like him,, hes my friend, oh god, im so confused, what should i do?
2006-09-09 03:43:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
follow ur heart baby gurl just tell him ur feelings changed and you think of him as more than a friend its nuthin wrong with liking ur friend i mean it happens to everybody sweetie
2006-09-09 03:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So whats wrong with that.....shouldnt you be friends with someone before you develop any type of romantic feelings for them anyway? If you are such good friends and you know how & who he truly is, then that is part of getting to know someone and establishing a realshonship anyway, you are just in the first phae. BUT Bare in mind that what he is as a friend may not be what he is as a boyfriend/companion. If he listened so well to the whole "just friends: thing then maybe he will listen if you make a big point on "more than just friends" LOL!
2006-09-09 03:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by nmaponte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saY give it a shot.. you started out as friends so you can go back to being just that. If you start dating a guy before being friends and you break up it'll be the end of that, but since you guys were friends first you can always sort things out later on.
2006-09-09 03:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by MissPriss121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him that what started out as friendship has turned into something else for you. I am sure you won't risk the friendship if he isn't feeling the same way. If you don't talk to him about it, you will never know. Friends should be able to talk about anything. I say, go for it, sweetie....you really have nothing to lose!
2006-09-09 03:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
went through the exact same thing, but he means too much to me to risk it. i wouldn't want to get in a fight, breakup, and never talk again. i wouldn't be able to handle that. i need him to be there as a friend. you just have to decide what you want and if its worth the risk. if you think it will go well and you are ready for a serious relationship then you should probably tell him how you feel. this is never a win win situation.
2006-09-09 03:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes friends make the best lovers you should be friends first before getting into a relationship you learn more things about that person
2006-09-09 03:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really no but that is how am right now wiyth my friend i gues just look around for a really attractive guy so them all u could think abut is him
sry i tried
2006-09-09 03:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by i_luv_dogs! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend is a good person to be dating. you know almost everything about him, and you prob. shared good times and bad times together. go for it girl. tell him how you feel.
2006-09-09 03:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2006-09-09 03:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cant you be bf and gf with friends tho?
2006-09-09 03:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by moooncak333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋