My ex girlfriend played that old "I think we should just be friends" song and dance on me. After she told me that, I havent seen her since. That was at the end of May. Her birthday is this coming Friday. Should I send her a card? And if I do, should I be sarcastic?
2006-09-09 03:43:25 · 23 answers · asked by samson316 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO, it shouldn't be sarcastic. A lot of people will tell you not to send her one, but only your heart can say for sure. I am in the same boat. I suggest that you keep it light, and short, with a quick note wishing her a happy birthday. If she has any class at all she will respond, and hopefully you two can talk someday. Good Luck!
2006-09-09 03:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by BudMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 13:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a card with a pic of you and your new girlfriend in it. Tell her that you wish her a happy b-day and wanted to touch base with her and catch her up on the events in your life...This will communicate to her that she has dropped the friendship ball and that you have been mature enough to pick it up. If you aren't seeing anyone then simply include a picture of yourself and let her know you're enjoying the bachelor life-Make sure the pic is up to date and that you look HOT! Sending cards and letters is what friends do...if she responds with anger...then she's flipping jealous that you have moved on and if she responds with a card or letter telling you how her life has been since May then you'll forever be the one who made the first real friendship move...
2006-09-09 03:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's already put it through you dat she just wanna be frenz den u shudn't b so uncomfortable about it.if sendin a card to her makes you recall all the bitter sweet memories with her then don't send her a card at all. but if ur sure that after sending her a card,ur not gonna hurt urself in anyway den go ahead..If u do wish her for her b'day, dont b sarcastic n don't let ur feelings show to her dat u still want her back. jus be cool n let her know dat u have no problems being jus frenz
2006-09-09 03:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't. I'll tell you why.
There's a reason why you two broke up and "decide to be friends". If she hasn't given you any signs to actually want to be friends, you shouldn't bother with the past. Just move on. She's probably moving on to other stuff in her life. Don't be sarcastic to an ex. You're just hurting and you want revenge, but the best revenge is to move on and pay no attention to your ex. Let her know that you are now living your life to the fullest and you're much happier without her.
2006-09-09 03:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should send her a card that is a very sweet thig to do and if u send her a card mayybe she will think u r a better person and go out with u again
2006-09-09 03:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you parted as friends why should you show unfriendly feelings???? By this action you will show that it still hurts. I'd rather send a good greeting and be polite. Do be a good real man! try to behave like a Man. Good luck to you!!!)))))
2006-09-09 03:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by rusteach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do u like her if u do then yes send her a card to show u did not forget
2006-09-09 03:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should send the card.. It will make her think about you... And it will make her look stupid at the same time.
2006-09-09 03:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by Shannon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Include a picture of you with your new girlfriend. If you don't have one, just find a hot girl who'll take a picture with you.
2006-09-09 03:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋