I have a boyfriend and he dosent ever call me or make any plans i am always the one doing that is that a bad thing?The only time he invites me anywhare is to his palce is that asign hes embarased to be with me?
2006-09-09 03:28:19 · 18 answers · asked by definitionofgrace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never calls you? And when he invites you to his place is it for sex? Obviously he isn't that interested or he would be calling you and making plans with you too. You need to find a relationship that is more balanced, someone that wants to be with you and experience new things together. You can talk to him about it and there is a slight chance that he will understand and start being more actively involved in your relationship....If not, STOP calling him and move on.
2006-09-09 03:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be a busy guy, u must be knowing better. Maybe he has lots of work and cant waste time going out time and again. But if he comes to places when u make plans or he's not that busy I think u could leave him. U know him more than us.
2006-09-09 04:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him girlfriend. You should never, ever call a guy. They call you, it keeps them keen. Let him make some plans for a change or don't make any and see what happens. I don't think he is embarrased to be seen with you, maybe he's just a jerk. Good luck!
2006-09-09 03:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Indianna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this question: When you have something particular you want to do does he go along with it? If he does then he's obviously not embarrased to be seen with you.
He may just expext you to plan the events and what-not. I wouldn't leave him over that. Just test the waters.
When in doubt follow your instinct. Not Yahoo! answers.
2006-09-09 04:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by bakergrl5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite frankly he is using you only for sex, hence the reason he only wants you at his place and never chases after you. Don't let him use you any longer darling, kick that jerk off's *** to the curb asap, you are much better than that. Get yourself a real bf, a real man that treats you good.
2006-09-09 17:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by CZ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn he doesn't want to be with you or like some people say you are a booty call. Just leave him and find a guy who can't stand a day without you
2006-09-09 03:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jesus S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If every time you go over to his you make love, it's pretty much a sure sign that's all he wants you for.
Or it just shows he has no imagination and needs to get a life.
Maybe you should just dump him and get a new boyfirend.
2006-09-09 03:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by Darek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There're many possibilities, but a person who can have a lot of ideas for things to do with his loved one, for me he's not in much love. Sweet heart I think is time for bye, bye.
2006-09-09 03:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are his booty call. I'd dump him if I were you, you deserve a man who treats you well, who respects you, and who wants to be with you and take you places. Not a guy who only wants to see you behind closed doors.
I'd walk away.
2006-09-09 03:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by Angeleyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop pushing yourself on him,go look for a guy that will love and cherich you
2006-09-09 03:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by my flame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋