I had one of the worst nights of my life last night. I am Bipolar to start with and have been doing well on my meds. This whole summer has been a disaster for my whole family just about all of us have been in the hospital over the summer. My father was in the hospital 40 some days my mom was in for five, i was in for six days now my mom is back in with bronchial problems. I have a new roomate. She asked me to babysit for the night and I did my mom called me from the hospital. Appartantly my daughter called her after she dropped my meds and told her that I was babysitting. In turn my mom called me and started to yell at me because i was babysitting. Then came the call my best friend died. If that weren't enough my boyfriends brother in law came to my house drunk and drugg my boyfriend left and my roomate called the law. In one night I lost my best friend, fought with my family and lost my boyfriend. Can anyone out there help me I am on the edge of something stupid. Please
2006-09-09 03:05:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
help me with some tips on how to get over the pain? I am hurting so bad. The reason my boyfriend left is because he was on the brink of decking his brother in law and then he would have gone to jail. He is angry with me because when his ex brother in law came here it was 2:30 in the morning and he thought there was something going on between us which is not the truth at all. My family feels that i am incompetent to baby sit because they say that i can't take care of myself yet babysit. They hate my boyfriend and say all he does is use me. My daughter is seven months pregnant and her boyfriend just got out of jail he gave me my pills then went to my family and said I was babysitting and my boyfriend was here. I got screamed at from my mom while she is in the hospital. I am 46 years old and can't do what i want? My family hated the punk before he went to jail not he is the greatest thing in the world. Oh by the way when my grandson is born i am not allowed to babsit him.Help.
2006-09-09 03:12:43 · update #1
Find someone to talk to! Whether it's a counselor, a pastor or priest, or any third party who's not involved in your life. You need a sounding board and someone to level things for you. Life does things like this, sometimes. I know you feel like it's only this way for you, but it really isn't. You can get through it, but you need to find someone to help you get through it. Take your meds and don't give up!
2006-09-09 03:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by clarity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out of the house. the best thing you can do is go to a safe place. a friend's house, church, anywhere but alone in your own place. we have all sorts of ways to solve problems but usually the ones we pick in crisis when we are alone without support aren't the best.
if you can't leave, call a hotline. it doesn't matter what hotline it is really. you just need to talk to someone.
2006-09-09 10:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you are so worried about letting people know how bad you have it that you are not taking care of yourself and trying to make your self happy, we can't make you happy, you have to do it. and part of that is quit using your disability as a crutch to make people feel sorry for you, we all have problems, but you need to get involved with something to occupy your mind. Quit feeling sorry for your self. Learn about your disability, and help others with the same problems, do something useful with your life.
2006-09-10 05:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by sweet luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WORRY NOT ABOUT THE THINGS YOU CAN DO nothing ABOUT AND CARRY ON TO THE FUTURE WITH THE BELIEF THAT ALL THINGS WORK TO THE GOOD.
2006-09-09 10:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by foulweathercatcherman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if things are this low for you now, then there are brighter days for you ahead! God Bless!
2006-09-09 10:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋