My casual lover/bf of over a year is moving back home for a job, today actually. I'm now coming to grips that I won't have that "buddy" anymore and his friendship. There's a chance that we will meet up again, he still wants to keep in touch with me through phone & email. Could that mean that he wants to see me again? When we were saying our goodbyes, he got teary eyed, and I cried. It was so hard. It's going to be difficult not having him around, and I'm not sure how to deal with it, exccept that I showed him that I was strong &happy for him, and will continue to think positive so we sometime in the future hookup again. We both told each other that it was the best sex we'd ever have, so that's going to make it even harder. Do you think I have a chance at seeing him again? He's going to be about 5 hours away, but if we keep in touch will it be possile?
2006-09-09 03:05:00 · 12 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 25, he's 32.
2006-09-09 03:12:40 · update #1
Easy answer. Of course. First is he married or does he have someone already cause you stated casual. and 5 hrs is that driving time or flying time? But anyway distant is only hrs away Life will make away
2006-09-09 03:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by RIchard H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are selling yourself short, by settling for a casual relationship.
Other than great sex, what else is there that let's you believe that this could possibly be going anywhere?
You sound as if you are still fairly young, so say your good-bye's and move on. There are better things yet to come. True love combined with great sex is the ultimate experience.
2006-09-09 03:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by brownsugar_smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems as though he more than just a "casual lover" to you. Phone calls and the Internet will make it easy for you to keep in touch if you both want too. Only 5 hours away...what a great reason for a weekend road trip.
2006-09-09 03:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by shelshe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 8elieve that you would have a possi8le chance @ seeing him again 8ut not as frequently as you've 8een seeing.Yeah,sure the 8oth of you had the 8est sex ever 8ut wake up V.I.P.! Look at it like this,the 8oth of you are 5HOURS AWAY,the only connection you'll have is "externally" if you get my drift!The only reason the two of you shared such a sentimental moment 8ecause he's going to miss out on your "goodies" girl.lol.When it all 8oils down, you'll 8e the one continuing doing all the "reaching out" while he's reaching toward another!Follow common sense Girl!
2006-09-09 03:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jane Doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of the fact that he moved away with out you, this is secure to assume - he's no longer that into you. save lookin darlin, till you hit upon the him it is able to invite you to return with and do regardless of he has to to make it so which you would be able to circulate with him. If a activity is greater significant than being with you, he's no longer your guy.
2016-10-14 12:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships rarley work out There a loads of songs on the subject. I dont know your age so you only live once stay friends if possible and keep the door open for opportunity that may be your soul mate...
2006-09-09 03:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by Carolyn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart when he gets to where he is going he's going to find someone else to fill your f*ck buddy shoes. Sex is all you are to him obviously....start doing things for yourself and get involved in other activities. Im sure you can find a guy who is worth your time and will treat as more than a booty call
2006-09-09 03:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
O sweets... Long distance relationships do not work... You have 2 choices: Either move on, and find someone near you, or MOVE to where he is. Good luck.
2006-09-09 03:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you're saying you're available then? I want some of that good sex!! Hit me up!
2006-09-09 03:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when their is a will !
their is a way!
2006-09-09 03:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋