I m loving a girl ,she was loving me to,but now she decided to breakup .Our love was deep for so a year,we shared many secertes ,we oftenly kiss each others ,but i was in deeply with her.jnow she want to seperate ,the reasons she says is that her family problem . I can't live without her what can i do now?she not talk with me neatly as she oftenly did.
2006-09-09 02:06:21 · 13 answers · asked by ANK 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And ,i cried before her for things to do well but she refuses me .does she loves someone other than me.i m just cry ing for her in nights
2006-09-10 22:26:03 · update #1
They say, "If you love someone, set them free.".... so maybe she really loves you.
Be open to new possibilities.... you never know what's awaiting you.
2006-09-09 02:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your age, but is it possible her family has set down some rules for her because they were afraid you were getting too serious and they felt she needed to experience other relationships (boy & girl)? I know you are hurting and feel devastated. As hard as it is, prove to everyone that you are respectful of her wishes or demands by her family. This will only show you are more mature than they thought. Do some soul searching and find other avenues to follow - getting involved with other friends, helping neighbors out with yard work, keeping your mind active so you don't dwell on this breakup. Also, she may have felt she needed to grow in different relationships so decided to break up. Maybe she felt over shadowed by you and used the family issue to let you down softly. Please don't say you can't live without her. Be strong, find other avenues to continue on, and good luck to you.
2006-09-09 02:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by HolidayGurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life will go on. Find an activity that will keep your mind off of her. Don't sulk in your bedroom listening to songs that you both listened to together. This doesn't help. If she gets through her 'family situation' and still wants to see you, she will call you.
If you try and push yourself on her or intrude, this will make things worse and drive her away. Been there...did that. Just back away, let her be, and if it was meant to be, she will call.
Good luck.
2006-09-09 02:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really want her back, try to be friends eith the family, let them see how you are, who you are. If you're geniuine, it'' show and they'll know you're good for her. I guess they got scared that you twoo were too heavy so they put the pressure on, so relax work on the friendship and give everything time.
2006-09-09 02:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by ann m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her back, ignore her totally. Don't give in and try to contact her in any way at all. The one thing women absolutely hate is being ignored.
When she contacts you, and she will, tell her that you were honoring her wishes to be broke-up. Then tell her that as long as she contacted you, you would like to know if it's okay for you to look for her replacement? She will then either tell you yes or look for ways to resume your relationship with her.
Either way you will know for sure and stop wasting time.
Good luck.
2006-09-09 02:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i broke up w/my bf 2day cuz of a family problem its sad 4 me
2006-09-09 05:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things you just have to let go of.
2006-09-09 02:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by Bo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahww. isn't that adorable? how about you offer her a gift. something that you know will defiantly make her happy. you should be happy that you got to spend time with a girl that you love
2006-09-09 02:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by ipodlady231 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
getting over ur 1st luv is tough: really tough...but it will take ur heart time to get over her.....u will get over her...luv has mysterious ways uv finding the right one...u thought she wuz the one...but shes not, ull find her
2006-09-09 02:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't be stupid. if she breaks up with you just like that then she doesn't love you. give it up
2006-09-09 03:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by auztik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋