my girl friend has been seeing a married man she has tryed to finish it with him for a while
now but he keeps coming back and texing her
what should she do
2006-09-09 01:35:31 · 27 answers · asked by ladyluck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's easy to think of aggressively during this situations. What you can do here is to avoid telling hurtful things which could potentially communicate the wrong things or feelings with him.
Tell your gf to become assertive. That is saying things that makes the man respect her decision while showing him respect. Insist the responsibility of the husband and make him realize he's doing the wrong thing. There are a lot of things that can be told like
"But you already have a wife. Aren't you worried about what might happen if you keep on doing this?"
These are wakeup remarks that would remind him of his family. You might be helping a family from being broken this way rather than throwing agressive hurtful remarks which may add to the possibility of it being wrecked.
I hope she gets over that unfaithful husband soon.
2006-09-09 02:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by tainted_aven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get in contact with his wife and tell her whats going on, take the proof of the texts with you. This man does sound a bit seedy and needs to be kicked into touch but why are you still with her if she has been cheating on you with another man. Something similar happened to me, I told the wife what was going on even though at first she didn't believe me, it turned out that my ex was one of many. I'd would seriously consider the relationship as she has done it once, she could easily do it again. Good luck
2006-09-09 09:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to cut it off NOW!!! The wife may be some psycho lunatic that may try to hurt her if she finds out. Your friend could end up completely ruining someone's marriage. I hope there are no kids involved. And obviously the guy isn't so great if he's cheating on his wife. Tell her to find someone who isn't such a selfish asshole!
2006-09-09 08:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate-drop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should get a new cell phone number and STOP returning his text messages and calls. He will get the point! If that doesn't work then tell her to tell him that she's going to tell his wife if he doesn't leave her alone. That should scare him away!
2006-09-09 08:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the wife, let the wife know what is going on. Wait a min, why are you going with a girl who is seeing a married man.???? what well she do to you. if she not alright doing it alright?????? think about it, i hope that you wore a lot of raincoats
2006-09-09 08:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should tell him to concentate on his family. If he persists she could always go and speak to his wife. Has she still got parents. No matter how old we are our parents will always be our advisers. We must just learn to ask them for their input. Tell her to speak to her parents.
2006-09-09 08:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to really put her foot down and tell him to go take a hike. if it continues, then she should contact his wife and explain the predicament.
2006-09-10 00:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by Nakie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he "texing" her?
Your gf should curtly tell him to look for another lady luck.
2006-09-09 08:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by Electric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's really trying to leave him alone, why is she answering his messages? Tell her to get another number.
2006-09-09 08:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you American? You might want to clarify what you mean by girlfriend. Are you in a romantic relationship with her?
2006-09-09 08:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Belinda B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋