why do people get adicted to sex ackwardly?dont they have any thing to better on this earth other than that?why dont they take it just as an art of relaxation or else just as a part of this life?
2006-09-09 01:34:51 · 22 answers · asked by k.krishna chaitanya 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
My fiance is a total nympho, sometimes i like that about him, others not so much... there are times that i just wanna sleep and he gets seriously pissed at me about it.... its crazyness really.
2006-09-09 01:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, don't let some of the other answers bug you. Imagine someone asking you if you don't get laid much? Is that anyone's business but yours? Nobody is the police over your private parts. I'm not saying that sex is bad. It's a very beatiful and spiritual experience shared between two people in love. Key word being "love". Many people confuse love with lust. To answer your question, people are obsessed with sex because they are animalistic. Their spirituality has not evolved to their higher chakras so they behave like animals who have sex with different partners. Many people don't realize that sex should arise out of love. Love grows with time, unlike lust which diminshes as each day goes by. I'm getting married next year. I've been with my boyfriend for eight years. He's my first boyfriend and I'm his first girlfriend. To tell you the truth, if God forbid, anything happened to him and we wouldn't be able to have sex, I would still marry him in a heartbeat. I couldn't have asked God for a better life partner. Everything in the world is becoming sexualized. Music videos, clothes and advertisements. As a woman, I must say that women cannot demand respect from men without having respect for themselves first. Many women are worse than prostitutes because they give away lots of sex, but for free. Women alone are not to blame. Men too, with all of this pornography nonsense. Many rapists commit rapes because of pornography. Research Ted Bundy or whatever the hell his name was. Would men want to see their mothers, sisters or wives being demeaned in that way. No, but they like to see it if it's other folk's daughters involved. It seems your question was "too high" for some people's little thinking. Many people are obsessed beacuse they are governed by their lower selves and not their higher selves. When a person's chakras or spiritual centres are not open they live at the level of their lowest chakra, the chakra representing sexual energy. Chakras are seven spiritual centres ranging from the base of the spine, the lowest, to the top of the head, the highest. The more of the higher chakras we have open, the closer we become to God.
2006-09-11 03:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Hema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a part of being human. You might as well ask "Why do people like eating?" or "Why do people like sleeping?". It is hard-wired into our brains. For most people these urges peak in their twenties and slowly diminish with time. If it wasn't pleasurable people wouldn't have offspring, the original reason. It is evolutions way of ensuring our survival as a species. Humans don't have mating seasons like animals, so we use pleasure as a lure. By the way nobody is addicted to sex, that just baloney. A way for cheaters to escape responsibility of their actions.
2006-09-09 01:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think like you. But I was sexually abused til the day of my wedding. So my answer may be biased. I was sexually active at an early age and with many partners. I regret it terribly now that I am married with 3 kids. I am 45. However, I married a man who had sexual issues. He quit having sex with me and I started thinking I was fat and ugly. I caught him masturbating with a **** mag when I came home one day for lunch from work. I was pregnant at the time. He had not touched me in six months. It devastated me. I thought I was undesireable. So I bought sexual instructional tapes on how to please your man. I did everything.....he still wasn't interested. The problem? We didn't have love or passion. We didn't even like each other. I had issues and he had issues. When I hit forty I had a sexual awakening. I left my husband and my new lover is so great. He took time with me and I had my first orgasm at forty something. It was awesome. God gave us sex to enjoy....to multiply. But we have to have the right partner.
2006-09-09 03:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by chattykatty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get possessed or obsessed about abything is not good, however sex is the basic need of the physical body, without which this life on earth could not be possible!
2006-09-12 00:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by nadkarni_chaitanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually types that ask this question are pretty prude and really have never had a great sexual experience. When you get rid of the mental hang-ups and actually participate, there is nothing better than sex.
2006-09-09 01:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the intimacy you share with anther that i love. Sex for mere physical pleasure does nothing for me anymore, but i have to admit i was addicted to that for a while. Why? because i believed that the only thing there really is, was the physical world, so physical pleasure looked like a good way to spend my time.
2006-09-09 01:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is how we express our love for another-it is a god given gift for us to create continuance = we can create a single entity from the love but one of both loves together
I'm not a slave to sex, lol it is not a neccesity but an enjoyment and yes, I have many things to do with my life rather than be a sex slave as you call it, lmol
2006-09-09 02:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right - one should have a controlled sexual life and not indulge in sexual pleasures, Agreed sex is a natural phenomena, but one should lead a balanced life and should have sex only to fulfill the natural instincts! People enjoy sex, indulge in more sexual contents like **** and all and get addicted.
2006-09-09 01:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by anil m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how people say drug addicts are always searching for that first high??well sex probably is the same only finding that first drug high isn't possible after the first time sex can give you that first time feeling,every time,for some.
2006-09-09 01:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋