I have talked about marriage with my boyfriend before and we both want it but I want to be untraditional and ask him. Do you think its right or wrong for a girl to ask the guy?
2006-09-09 01:29:20 · 34 answers · asked by Tamarra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
there is nothing wrong withj that if you are feeling ready and he needs a push go for it I hope he is ready
2006-09-09 01:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A question is a question. If you have one, ask it. Has less to do with 'tradition' than your fear of 'breaking out' of a cultural mould you grew up in. On the other hand, I'm not suggesting you to be so bold that you don't consider your thoughts first before you ask any question to anyone. You need to exercise discretion and not be demanding an instant answer when you ask non-ordinary questions like this.
If we hold onto our 'rights' as privileges, most anything is not about 'wrong' or 'right'. You will begin to exercise genuine consideration of other people's needs when you begin to think this way.
hope this helps...
2006-09-09 01:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by thru a glass darkly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably laughed because you requested him and each body is acquainted with its assume to be the guy asks the female and receives on one knee and all. its extraordinary to have a woman recommend. a dangle up? possibly the surely reason he enable it bypass down hill is because he didnt care sufficient to shop the relationship. adult men dont like change highly a woman asking a guy to marry her..its no longer even that he rejected you he in no way truly gave you a instantly convinced or no. now that he's acquainted with you want to get married possibly hes waiting for a suitable time to recommend. verify with him about it and tell him that he truly did harm your thoughts once you requested him because you've been severe. the most importaint ingredient in a relationship is communique!!!!
2016-11-25 21:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by dlabaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By taking the initiative you are setting the tone for wearing the pants in the family and being the decisionmaker for the entire marriage. If that's what you both want, fine...if not it will set you up for disaster. In spite of what some have told you, men and women are not the same.
2006-09-09 04:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong . By today's standards it's common for the girl to ask the guy. If the relationship is going to work and go further someone has to ask , so why not the lady!
2006-09-09 01:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by metalbu11dawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with a girl asking the guy. But I hope you consider whether or not you both are ready for it. Like where are you gonna live at, how will you two commute, who pays for what bills, when to have kids? etc....
2006-09-09 03:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to marry him, ask him. It's your life. You don't have to follow other people's rules. Or you could ask him "Do you think we should get married?" of "Do you think we are ready to get married?" These would lead to a discussion which would probably lead to him asking you, but the best approach for you is just to ask him.
2006-09-09 02:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Superstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up and smell the roses. ladies the year is 2006, Ladies has the right to do anything they want too,Just like Men. If a man can ask a woman to marrier him, why not a ladie.
2006-09-09 01:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with this at all. Go for it - my daughter asked her husband and my future daughter in law asked my son. Great idea I think, besides you could be waiting forever otherwise
2006-09-09 17:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No at least you will know where you stand, but there is the thing about the ring, you have to give him something to make sure that he knows you are for real,
Maybe like a watch, like a really good watch
2006-09-09 01:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by bkbarile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unusual, but not wrong. Just be sure that he really wants marriage and that the chances of him saying "Yes" are good. Nothing more demoralizing than "No". Go well, and God Bless!
2006-09-09 01:34:24 · answer #11 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋