I'm having problems because it seems like the ones that I'm attracted to are either married, gay or underaged. What's a girl like me to do. I don't want to be forced to go back into the bar scene.
2006-09-09 01:18:45 · 35 answers · asked by Ask Donna 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
In church, you will find guys who are gullible and easily manipulated. A sharp gal like you should be able to pick their wallets and bank accounts clean.
2006-09-09 01:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well personally I don't go to church to pick up guys, though I am single an available. Thats not its purpose. Its really going to depend on how many available men are in the church and these days, its not that many. I have been told if you get involved in the life of the church and enjoy what you are doing, then the man will come if it is meant to happen. Good luck.
2006-09-09 01:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ruff_and_stuff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don get a life. For any woman out there that may read this and is truly feeling ths way, do not goto church just to pick up on guys i6t is not your local dating service. If you attend church because you loveGod and want to serve Him you may find that God will answer your prayer of sending the right man your way.It is all up to God He has a plan for each and everyone of us. Follow Christ first and seek Him all else that is good for us should follow when we have a sincere heart.
2006-09-09 01:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by wolfy1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not only you but many girls find themselves in such peculiar condition, does not mean that Church is a hangout place for eligible guys. While it would give you spiritual strenght to undergo what you feel is a problem, chances of find a guy is slim. You mind get a Bible thumping guy who you might later regret knowing, so be around places you like being at.
On a jovial note, why don't you ask donna ?
2006-09-09 01:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it is unlikely you will meet a guy at church. Best thing to do is to get involved in a Bible study or some other group from the church you go to. That way you get to know people better. Not long ago some people in our church got together and played laser tag. My wife and I went and we met some people that didn't go to the church because they were relatives and friends of church members from out of state. You never know who you will meet at church functions.
2006-09-09 01:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by Bags 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm......I have heard that people hook up by meeting in church but both people were single. Bar scenes are not the greatest place to meet guys unless of course you are just looking for a one night stand. I have been in that situation. Dont try so hard let the guys come to you.
2006-09-09 01:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by forgetmenot79323 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Church is a much better place to find the type of person who is more serious than a brief encounter. where i used to live there was an interdemoninational church sponsored singles group where like minded people of both genders could meet. they had dances, church related discussions about the singles problem, BIBLE study, pitch in dinners, games and other activities. you might talk to your minister priest or rabbi and see if you could get something like this started where you are. please accept my best wishes and good luck.
2006-09-09 01:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Donna Donna Donna, any man is fair game whether married or gay. Just use your womanly charms and you'll be rolling around in the hay bails in no time. Who cares that its adultery, all you need to do is go to church the next day and you will be forgiven. This is the get-out-clause in Christianity.
2006-09-09 06:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by A_Geologist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church is a great way to meet all kinds of people. Just make it seem like you're there to worship and not pick up guys.
2006-09-09 01:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you should go to a gay bar by the appearence of your avatar
2006-09-09 01:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋