I am trying to figure out a method of approaching this lady but have complications i am a security guard she works for a law firm as a secertary. How do i approach somebody who is so nice and beautiful in the eyes, hips, but, breast and most of all character. I feel like hiding in a corner because even when i dont look at her figure just her eyes i almost get hard. I am not trying to be perverted but i am afraid of two things gossip and harrasment because she works in the same place but on a different level and different job meaning i work for the bank the bank rents out space to companies so we dont work for the same company but harrasment can be percieved as anything. Do i flurt with her and ask her questions to let her know i am interested and if the signs are good then go from there or do i let it go because my job is needed?
2006-09-09 00:31:49 · 11 answers · asked by Thomas L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she works for a law firm, she's probably a b*tch. I doubt she would go out with a security guard also. You can try, but I wouldn't give you much of a chance with her.
2006-09-09 00:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You start out with small talk but try to end it with a question like, "hi, how are you..isn't it beautiful outside?" This will make her stop and answer (unless she's rude, then she will only say 'fine thank you') and go thru the revolving doors.
Always talk loud enough for her to hear you but not too loud where its not sexy. Move your comments into compliments, say something like "those are really pretty shoes" (you obviously don't want to mention her great cleaveage as it could be construed as harassment). This will let her know you are looking and interested without being too forward.
Take her cues, read her body language, this sometimes speaks louder than words.
2006-09-09 07:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by Gaby A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking someone that you work with for a date is not considered sexual harassment, but if you ask and she says no and you keep bugging her about it then it's considered harassment. Be a man and ask her out. The worst thing that could happen would be a "no" answer. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
2006-09-09 07:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by I'manalienfrog 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"A man has got to do what a man's got to do" as the say business before pleasure, if you feel it would disrupt you soucre of income then don't do it, on the other hand the say dance to the tune of your heart. Heed the words.
2006-09-09 08:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by funnyfish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop oggling and talk to her. If you get a nice vibe, then (and only then) "flirt" with her. But for God's sake stop staring at her "jiggle", you're making a spectacle of yourself.
2006-09-09 08:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u feel attracted speak to her . But do not make yourself dirty with her saliva and dirty body fluids. Know her if she is good to be a friend and welwisher of yours esatablish friendship. The human can be your friend not her boobs. She is a humanbeing not just Jiggling breast. what do you want piece of meat or a friend choice is yours.
2006-09-09 07:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by motherofgod 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
gee man just ask her out for coffee or lunch....where has the American male backbone gone these days. The worst she can do is say no....like you never heard that word before...right?
2006-09-09 07:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by norwood 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, dude! You don't have to be sexually offensive or put your job at risk just to find out if she's interested.
2006-09-09 07:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give her some cutesy eye contact..and if she's interested i'm sure she'll smile at ya.. =]
2006-09-09 08:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by Kaitlynn F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
use your hand cuff's and drag her into the basement ..
I would say shes out of your league...
2006-09-09 07:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋