I met this guy on an internet website.. he was very interested so we exchanged numbers and a few emails its been 1 week. I have called him 3 times he hasnt returned any of my calls however he has txt me everyday seeing how Im doin and when I'll be free to talk and given me reasons why he has missed my calls. I don't know whether I should call him again 1 last timeor shall I just wait for him to call meor just give up??? Help!
2006-09-09 00:31:11 · 24 answers · asked by minx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is important not to jump to conclusions, he may have a genuine reason for not calling, you will have to decide if he seems truly apologetic or not. However it is also important for him not to think he can call you whenever he wants, this may set a bad precedent should a relationship emerge.
I have never been a fan of playing games so my personal advice would be to talk to him about it and find out how he feels. If you don't like that approach, you can try subtly pulling away and seeing if he follows. If he does, he is still interested and will probably be more interested now because he will see you as a challenge, if he doesn't, then move on and forget him.
2006-09-09 01:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by Richard C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him. If he really really want to talk to you - he will call. Also no use to communicate too much via txt. If you live in the same town you'd better ask him to meet and state an exact day and time. He is not agreed so you better give up. YOu didnt know him in real life and there are so much guys online who are chatting with other girls, having a wife and children at home. So if he is not agreed to meet or call you - you better move one. After all, there are many other guys online who might exchange phone numbers.
2006-09-09 00:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tanusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Firstly you must be sure and stay safe! You really never know who a person is on the internet! the experiance on the internet can be both positive and negative! Do not call him again , and please make sure that you do not arrange to meet him or do anything without a back up plan, if you have to meet this person do not meet them alone! I am serious mate, am I right you have only been chatting with him a week? I think your being far to enthusiastic ! get to know this person as much as you can first. He could be married/could be lying thru his teeth which you can do on the internet! Be safe!!!!
2006-09-09 00:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by sicilyuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girlfriend!i was in the same predicament a few months ago n i called the brother 4 times n he didnt return any of them!so my answer is NO dnt bother calling him again.rather wait for sumone wo will meet u half way!
2006-09-09 00:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by kelebogile h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step away from the PC! Switch off the mobile! Go get bathed and dressed, get your mates and go out into the big wide world and find a good guy who is worthy of your time and attention!
2006-09-09 00:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you met him on the internet and havent actually spoke to him its probably because he's a 90 yr perv or even a woman. dont forget people can pretend to be anyone online. im actually a hamster.
2006-09-09 00:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a txt an on line person.. Doesn't want to talk. For get him and move on.
2006-09-09 00:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by James H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD NOT CALL HIM AGAIN. I KNOW THAT YOU MAY FEEL LIKE YOU GUYS HIT IT OFF BUT TRUTHFULLY IF YOU MET HIM ON THE INTERNET HE IS ALSO MEETING OTHER PEOPLE ON THE SAME SERVICE. JUST ERASE HIS # FROM YOUR PHONE AND DON'T CALL HIM AGIAN. YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT. SO JUST BE PATIENT AND YOUR PRINCE CHARMING WILL COME TO YOU.
2006-09-09 01:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me he is in a long term relationship, probably married with kids. What a loser. try and forget about him.
2006-09-09 00:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't he call BUT can text? There is your answer and a fairly obvious reason I suggest?
2006-09-09 03:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋