We have been together for 3 years and she wanted to take a break but she still loves me. I know the reasons for the break which are because she wants to think but also because we havn't had much time alone to talk or anythign and I know that hurt the relationship. tonight we are going to a concert in Philadelphia. We are going to be spending the whole day together. I want to just have fun and be her friend but I also want to be romatic like its our first date all over again. So I am going to just be myself the guy she fell in love with. We are just going to do somethings have fun and go to the concert. I am thinking of holding her during a song that is special to both of us and singing it to her. Also I want to give her one red rose at the end of the night and depending on how things go a kiss good night. Should I do the things to be romantic or just have them ready and if things feel right just go with it. I know she is the one for me and I want her to feel the same again.
2006-09-09 00:25:28 · 8 answers · asked by jsnpasty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be romantic. You sound like a keeper. Good luck.
2006-09-09 00:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow, but don't pressure her. She's obviously got her reasons for wanting a break, probably cos she's not sure about something. Just be yourself at this concert, like you say if you're on a break she may not want all the romantic stuff. She's her own person, with her own mind. If she's decides you aren't the one for her then fight for her a little but respect her decision and walk away if she doesn't reciprocate.
2006-09-09 07:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by waftycrank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to just be her friend and you know it.
You are going to crowd her and that is going to result in a breakup.
Easy does it. Call off the romance for the concert trip.
2006-09-09 07:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, do that stuff, but downplay it's meanings. If you pressure her with these things, it might backfire. I would do it like I was a goofball, goofing around. btw, I hope you have a nice voice.
Good luck and I commend you for letting her have her space to think.
2006-09-09 07:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can do all th romantic stuff.It wont hurt to try to make her fall in love with you all ovr again!Good luck and i wish you all the best!
2006-09-09 07:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by kareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be such a pansy. She is taking the piss. I hope your not paying for all this as well. Remind her that you are on a break as well. Flirt with some other girls, make her crazy and jealous.
Otherwise she is lost to you.
2006-09-09 07:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by Antidiluvian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play your game only you know how.But be careful cause a chain reaction is likely to occur provided the critical mass of ..... is exeeded
2006-09-09 07:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by funnyfish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude ..I think she just didn't know how to tell she was breaking up with you ..wake up and smell the coffee ...
2006-09-09 07:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋