Dont want a relationship but still want sex, do ya think guys would be generally ok with me being honest..
2006-09-09 00:03:57 · 27 answers · asked by dreamer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah it always best to be honest, you don't want the guy thinking that you want a relationship when you don't, that is just not fair to him. And it is okay to not want a relationship at this time in your life. But what I would suggest is finding one man that you feel comfortable with, a man who is also only looking for sex, and yall can be kind of like f*ck buddies. But I wouldn't suggest that you go sleeping with all kinds of men, that just makes you a sl*t.
2006-09-09 00:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by the_world_is_yours44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in this day that this is acceptable. But, that doesn't mean that you don't have to be picky. We men enjoy a "no strings" relationship, but you have to give some percentage of error for feelings are still going to come into play. But if the relationship is up front straight sex and then go about your way, that might be difficult. I mean are you saying you just want sex, then you want him to leave? You can find that just by asking anytime, anywhere. But if you mean sex within friendship, that's more like it. Maybe I'm wrong, but I would feel the urge to pay a girl if it was just sex only, nothing else at all.
2006-09-09 00:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by jkcmr2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. But in this case, as long as your not doing it with a bunch of men in a short period of time and ruining your reputation. I would say it is okay. But more than two men at one time is not okay (unless it's a threesome situation). People really don't need to know what or who your doing anyway. It's none of there business except who your having sex with.
2006-09-09 00:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy will be jumping all over themselves trying to get to you. You must be careful here though. Judge your dates carefully before you make any such announcements. You don't want to attract the wrong type of attention and thereby invite more trouble than you can handle. So long as you love yourself and have the character to keep your dignity it could serve you well.
2006-09-09 00:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in general, guys want that... but there are a few who actually prefer to be in a relationship before anything else. being honest would be ok. just deliver the message/proposal in a good manner. have fun!
2006-09-09 00:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by theNthEreWasyOu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! I like a woman who has a nice big set of... honesty.
;-)
Don't let the prudes get to you, be honest, but be smart about it too. Do you have a specific guy in mind or are you looking for an F. Buddy too?
2006-09-09 00:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok. Have friends with benefits. Sex is safer that way. You could also try cyber sex, but you need an email and/or IM to chat on.
2006-09-09 00:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tall Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse we love that kind of woman. Just for sex only.. That way we don't have to spend a lot of money on you for gifts and dinner.
2006-09-09 00:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by James H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you want is sex and you're up front about it, I don't think you'll have any problems getting it, I know I'd do you whenever you needed it and leave right after....
2006-09-09 03:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by aguywithnothingbettertodo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be sure its a guy who wont brag
guys tend to brag
best if you pick a guy no one knows
doesnt work with you
not from your cicle of friens
not a freind of the family
so that leaves the whole wide whole!!!
stay away from ppl who r close to you
hey i m me pls!!
2006-09-09 00:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by alamoblue2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋