my dad makes fun of me and calls me stupid if i do anything wrong , he never shows me his kidness he is always cruel with me and i cannot face him as he threatened me to divorce my mom and never give us money
2006-09-08 23:54:55 · 34 answers · asked by lily j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Perhaps the divorce is the best route girl. He will have to pay weather he likes it or not eventually. Tell your Mom to get a job if she doesn't have one and you can help her out around the house. Work something out with your Mom. Sounds like you two are better off without him to me. Kill him is a bad idea, more trouble than it's worth. I wish you all the best girl!
2006-09-09 00:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rock N' Roll Junkie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a total idiot.
Ignore him and do nothing in front of him. Basically stay away from him, he's not good for you or your mum.
When you get older you can then chose to move out and have nothing to do with him, if that is the path you chose then simply stay away from him and look forward to the time when you be free of it all.
On the other hand you might want to try to talk to him about this, he may not realise what an abusive person he is. If you do talk to him you must remain calm at all times and dont insult him as that would make him worse.
Good luck.
2006-09-09 00:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by m0rrell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly know how you feel. The very best thing you can do is realize that your dad has an illness that makes him act as he does towards you. It's not you personally that makes him act as he does. It's his own feelings about himself that makes him do and say what he does.
Please realize that you are not your dad and that what he says to hurt you can't unless you let it. You are a valuable and worthwhile human being deserving of love and affection the same as any other human being.
I am very sorry you are in the situation that you are being forced to endure. Be stronger than your dad. Ignore him as much as possible and move on with your life. Succeed and show him that it can be done even with a dad whose sickness caused him to hurt you.
Remember my words. You are worthy and you can do it.
2006-09-09 00:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please read everyones answers before you let Your anger make you possibly do something you can't Undo!!!....People say and do mean things when they are miserable inside. There are laws to protect your mother and yourself!...Your father is taking it out on you what he can't fix inside himself, Don't you absorb those hateful words, as hard as that sounds, you aren't the one with the problem(s), he is...We all don't live in your house so we don't know how often it is, or how bad it is etc. but judging from some of the answers here, we all have had our share of family BS, and can understand how you are feeling!...Sometimes parents don't get along anymore,and that hurts...But when they bring the kids in the middle of it, or take it out on them, that is so wrong. I tell you that from when I was a kid, and my mom and dad would get into it, and take it out on me. They don't realize how bad it makes us feel. Do you have grandparents? Is there a relative you could visit for the weekend to give yourself a break? Is there anyone that you could turn to to tell them what is going on? Don't yell stuff back to your dad when he is flipping out, that will just make things worse. If there is Physical violence you call someone, family or the police, but don't you do something that will ruin your life, OK?....If you need to let it out, let it out here. !
2006-09-09 00:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely don't do anything so stupid as killing him. He may be bad, but it's not worth ruining your life because of him.
Life isn't fair. You just have to cope with it as best you can. In a few years, you'll be grown up, and you won't have to deal with your dad anymore if you don't want to. In the meantime, just try to find other people that are better to be around, and try to spend more time with them. Yeah, it's tough, but you can make it.
The best revenge is being a better person than he is. Don't let him ruin your life.
2006-09-09 00:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have patience. Study well use him to complete your studies . After you become goodenaugh get out get a job. stay away from him. Ask your mother to work as well support each other. What about your mother''s education . Why she is unable to support you and herself. Education is the solution . Beggers are not choosers. Never depend on anybody regarding money earn yourself. That is joy. Take his help till it is required. He is who brought you here in this world it is his duty . To feed you , give you education and help you to stand on your own feet . Go to police if necessery. Some do not deserve good behavior. Some do not deserve to be a father. Pray to God , ask for help , stop interaction with your father. speak as less as possible . Go to church speak to the father. Try to find some God loving people Chant the Gods holy name when you are low and sad. Sing for him share your life with Jesus and God.
2006-09-09 00:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by motherofgod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom,and a counsler at school (school age ?)
No one likes to be called names, specially if it's from your own parent. If he has not divorced your mom yet he probably won't,
Empty threats are just that empty. Vebal abuse is just as bad
Take a chance at looking for help for you and mom/ maybe he'll
join in if he ready. Your suggestion is no good you'll ruin your life
along the way. Talk, Talk, Talk it out together. Let him know you love him.
2006-09-09 03:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely even if in case you do not imagine so that you're nonetheless a toddler and that i understand maximum 16 year previous's imagine they're grown up yet they don't seem there continues to be lots to study earlier you pass out into the international. And that's in worry-free words 2 more beneficial years then you could pass out and do as you please the perfect ingredient you desire is a boyfriend you should attend until eventually you're 18 to initiate taking under consideration looking a boyfriend and bigger on college and what you opt to do once you're grown up and on your man or woman. so a concepts as him asking about the position you're going and what you're doing it really is his interest to make confident you're probability-free in any respect circumstances and under no circumstances to allow you to recognize the position and what he's doing it really is his business enterprise until eventually it really is doing damage to the kinfolk. because the arriving domicile interior the evening and speaking loud i'd advise making use of ear plugs once you sleep so that you wont get awakened.
2016-10-15 23:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your da is being cruel he should not treat you this way. I know you feel hate its more hurt and the fact that he is being nasty.ou cant kill him why ruin your life. May be your mum an you would be better off with out him money isnt everything you will survive and be happy.
2006-09-09 00:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? it almost sounds like your just not getting your way with your dad. grow up a little and give him a chance. he is your dad and knows what is good for you. saying you should kill him and looking for someone to tell you go ahead a do tells me you may need therphy. sorry if that sounds mean . and if this is realy true what you said about your dad you still need to see someone to talk to about this. try your guidance councsellor at school or one of your teachers.
2006-09-09 00:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋