We have been together for 3 years now and she wanted to take a break. She still loves me but wants to make sure its not just because we were together for so long. I know what some of the problems were with the relationship and I know I can take care of them. I know she needs time to think but I'm pretty lost without her I know that she is the one. I want her to know what she wants and to feel the same as she did. Today we are going to a concert together in Philadelphia and I am going to be myself I want it to be like our first date all over again. I want it to be special for both of us and I am going to just be a good friend while there and resist trying to get her back. Suggestions on how to handle this what to and not to do
2006-09-08 23:03:11 · 9 answers · asked by jsnpasty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was going to say propose to her...i think after 3 years that is the next step.
2006-09-08 23:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Beachy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you've said it, she still loves you.. believe in your relationship, that will bind you together... both of you need time, because it seems that youre now on the comfort zone, and that is something to think about, if she would stay or not, if she's still happy or really inlove... but dont expect too much from your relationship, expectations can hurt you,... come what may,,
2006-09-09 06:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by `red 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be attentive but not to full on, talk about good times u both shared then see her home without trying ur luck
2006-09-09 06:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by dreamer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do just what u said, and smile allot. then shell know your having a good time. Bop your head to the music while doing this. She'll think it is cute.
2006-09-09 06:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by someones sister 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on
be freinds
but you waiting to be there for her
she might already have some one else in mind
or is she trying the old say
set them free
if he returns he is yours
2006-09-09 06:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by alamoblue2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. When girls say that they want to think they only want to think alone, you can't do nothing, you have only to wait until she decides to do something, it's not fair (for you) but if you love her you have to do it.
2006-09-09 06:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Embliri Trex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do agree with someone's sister .
2006-09-09 06:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her or leave.
2006-09-09 06:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by San Fernando Valley Rose 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its your choice, find it by the inner beauty
2006-09-09 06:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋