It's been over a year and a half since my ex broke up with me because he couldn't handle a long distance relationship (we tried it for 6 months). He has been calling me ever since..at least every two weeks..to say hi and see how I am doing. Whenever we see eachother (like every 3 months or so) we play around but never have sex. Why does he continue to keep in touch? I am seven years younger (i'm 20 and he is 27). And he even tells me that he wants me to have fun and meet other people b/c we are both "living seperate lives right now." Any ideas on what he is thinking? I don't know if I should keep talking to him because I cant seem to get over him. But then if I don't answer his calls I get scared that he'll never call me again and I love him so much. What should I do? Show my love? I feel like maybe i should not call him back for once and see how he reacts....after all, we've been playing this game for 2 years! should i ignore him and see how he acts or will he stop calling then?
2006-09-08 22:38:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one can know his motivation.
Just ask him what he's thinking.
Stop playing games...
2006-09-08 22:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COme on ! it's so clear, he loves you and you love him, it's the the distance barrier, but if you both really love and care for eachother i think that this problem can be solved in a way or another, one ofy ou might be abkle to move.
I hate it when distance causes problems! this is the same issue with my girlfriend, maybe not as far, she lives 80 KM away in another city, and i dont have a car. i see her on average once a week, we go for lunch of for a movie.
We have been together for 6 months, we love eachother A LOT, and we have never thought about breaking up because of distance, although it really bothers at some moments when she needs me beside her, or when i need her beside me. But i think that sonner or later, the dstance problem will be solved..
stick to him, he loves you and care for you, and i'm sure that he broke up just for your own sake, for you not to feel stuck with a man who lives way far from you. If you still have feelings for him, then just share that with him, and good luck with your relationship :)
Maybe most of what i said is just what i feel about MY relationship. i might not be applicable on yours. but anyways, good luck.
2006-09-08 22:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i broke up with a girl, i wouldnt want to talk to her at all. This ex of yours can be a bit lonely and actually misses you, or the sex. SInce you have feelings for him, might as well let it out. No use holding it in.
2006-09-08 23:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by Peter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u need to stop answering his phone calls.think about it.if he broke up with u for that stupid reason that means he does not really love you if hes not Willing to work out a small thing like that.I'm sorry but its common seance he only wants a arm candy trust me i have been in the same sich so don't stress go out and party and find some one new
2006-09-08 22:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he's thinking ...thanks for the permission to screw around while youre away...but Im calling to check in on you and give you false hope and make sure you stay single and pine away for me and dont even think about getting a real boyfriend who will commit to you.
Love hurts when its one sided girl. Move on.
2006-09-08 22:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋