Ok...I YELL Al My Mom And Grandma ALL THE TIME!!!.
I Hate My life.
Like I Said Before Im Overweight.
but Anyways.
I Have Always been Treated Mean So I Think That nbody cares..,And I always Say.." I Hate My Life....I Wann DIE!!!!!!" i Want To Stop.
I Wanna Be Happy.
B-cause i love My Mom And Grandma.
And I dunno.
Plz Pray For me..It Would Help..
I Really need Some Friends Too.
cause I Have None Cause Im White...and Cause Im "overweght" as u would say.
Thx.
Amber.
2006-09-08 21:59:19 · 32 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How old are you?
Talk to a therapist and you can get started on your way to becoming the person you really want to be.
You can change your life if you are motivated to do so.
Take a step and get some professional help.
We'll be rooting for you!
2006-09-08 22:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you do not say how old you are, but i suspect that you are quiet young,possibly even teenage, the reason i say this is because the teenage years are not always good ones, your hormones are all over the place and running riot, nothing is right, you are not really a child anymore but you are also not yet an adult, you have the world on your shoulders and everyone seems to hate you, it is all very frustrating, but please do not lose hope things will get better but not overnight. if you feel that you can not talk to your mum or gran about how you feel then write them a letter and explain to them how you feel that way, sometimes just writing it down can help you feel better do not ever put yourself down about how you look everybody is different that is what makes the world go round, there is nothing wrong with being white,black,yellow,green or any other colour, and as for being (in your words) overweight so what, try and lose a little at a time size really does not matter it is what is inside you that counts, and if the people around you do not like who you are then they are not the friends for you, i can not wave a magic wand and make it all better for you,( i wish i could ) but please hang in there, things will get better, you could even print off this answer along with your question and leave it where you know they will find it. anyway i hope all goes well for you i send you all my best wishes and prayers. good luck.
2006-09-08 22:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by mythmagicdragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have taken a big step forward, in acknowledging that you have problems. One need to take one issue at a time.
Your depression, Communication with your mother and Grandmother and the lack of supportive friends.
As for your weight, losing the weight does not guarantee happiness. If you want to lose the weight for health reason then you need to speak to a doctor. The doctor will provide some positive ways to lose the extra pounds.
If you start with one of the issue you wrote about the others will fall into place.
You need to feel good about yourself. Once you do there is no limitations. Also, keep in mind that there are always professional help out there. You can speak to a teacher or counselor at school.
Do not wait to long to get on the road to where you want to be.
2006-09-08 22:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by July1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amber you shouldn't be depressed you got your whole life ahead of you join a club or get a big sister . Lose some weight go walking with your mom or grandma .You shouldn't yell at your elders either ..I would never do that to my grandma she passed away I miss her very much she took care of me alot .. Ill pray 4 u ..But on the realness being overweight shouldn't want to make u hate yourself ..that u can lose like i said get on a program with positive people helping u ...Amber smileeeeeee 4 meeeeee ...<---that's me singing 2 u and my *** cant sing worth shisssssh lol ...I hope u feel better and have a wonderful day Miss Amber ...u take care of yourself and be positive girl ok =)
2006-09-08 22:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by UgottaBkiddinMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Amber ill Pray for u but why u do not pray by ur self
pray for me : it's mean u do believe in that so do it just trust in ur self & the God .Do u know u made him sad coz u don't love ur life which is gift from him?!!!!!
U r white & overweight , so what ???The one who loves u ; Doesn't love u for ur beauty or appearance,baby.
Be sure real human doesnt care about apperrance & am sure u'll find a real friend in ur life, at least u do have ur mom & grandma & they do care about u.
Dear Amber to be overweith it is not a kind of sicknesjust just u need to make a decision : exercise & diet.
If u have problem w/ that so dont think about any more .
Accept ur self as u r, love u r self coz u have a beautiful heart, u know how to love as u said u love ur mom & grandma,
u r waiting for truly freind so u know valua of love & freindship
love ur self , u looklike a beautiful barbie in my eyes.
I wish u happy life :)
2006-09-08 22:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by behnoush_k_1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear Amber, let's solve your so-called problems one by one. You're white, is this a problem? how many people wish that they were white like you? You love your mom and grandmom yet yell at them. Just control yourself when you feel the urge to explode and remember that they're your house's true blessing, something which you'll never know or realize until they're gone and you need their love and wisdom to guide you. You're overweight and this seems to be your problem and it's not a problem, really. Just have the determination to lose weight by following a strict diet, exercising and helping with the house chores and even finding a part-time job. Occupying your time fully would alter your view of life completely. Friends, good and well-chosen ones, could come easily the more you indulge with people. You are a sensitive person and you deserve to enjoy life and what it offers and not think of such horrible things such as wishing to die. They're childish thoughts that, someday, you'll have a good laugh at. God bless you and the best to you in your happy future.
2006-09-08 22:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amber just because u consider yourself overweight doesnt mean others do. Not all people are superficial some people look for inner beauty.Relax your mum an grandma love you they shouldnt have to put up with your moods. Talk to them about how your feeling. Dont sulk around get out do something about it. Stop an think how your hurting your family by saying you want to die. If your family didnt care they wouldnt be there for you. they provide you with roof over your head food to eat there are worse of ppl in the world than you. Life is what you make it. Get out meet new ppl make friends.
2006-09-08 22:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm praying for you Amber... Grab your bible... Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the thoughts that I think towards you says the Lord of Hosts, thoughts of peace and not of evil to give you a future and a hope."
Read that verse and in fact, read all the way to verse 14.
While you're online, you might want to check out "The Father's Love Letter" - just type in those words on a search engine and something should come up...
2006-09-08 23:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by Christian Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my tip
do something about it. you obviously think skinny is beautiful so get gym mebership.
i was kicked out of my hs. i felt like you. i choose to do something , worked hard for the next 7 year community college / university work and now im making 6 figures.
i hate it too but its a judgemental world.
7 years is a hell of a long of a time but you must realize one thing. the meaning of life is to grow.
good luck.
ps personal trainer is a waist of money. a workout buddy with the same problem is the best solution. you can help will each other into the ultimate goal.
2006-09-08 22:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol your white and have a pic of a dark complected girl lol what are you trying to fit in to somewhere your not suppose to do? Ok you want friends you have two options
hang with people like you overweight or lose weight thats all you can do
Stop using excuses
did you know im 300 pounds im pretty solid but have a bit of a gut and i have a wife who is hot why? Your mood reflects how people see you not that your white
2006-09-08 22:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋