I love this girl that lives 600 miles away. We were best friends as kids and I moved away and have not seen her in 10 years. We recently found each other and are head over heals for each other. I am visiting in a week and have 6 interviews set up there already. My plan is to find a job and stay with her. What are your opinions? I am 19 years old and have nothing keeping me where I am.
2006-09-08 21:55:42 · 13 answers · asked by wil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I left when I was 9 years old yes. We were unseprable when we were young. I then found her online and it was like I had never left. We clicked within a day and it's been about 2 months now and she says she loves me and wants me to be there. I just wanted other opinions so I can consider all aspects.
2006-09-08 22:11:22 · update #1
Go for it Dude. If you don't do it while you are young, you never will. Take a leap of faith. Trust your heart and intuition.
Even if it doesn't work out.. Life is an experience... Live it to the Max
2006-09-08 22:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by whidd2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give the relationship time to grow. If it seems like it is becoming something serious, permanent, then I would move.
There is no point in making a serious move and then two months later you feel that you are not compatible and yet you are stuck where she is because you signed a 3 year contract at your work place that you cannot break.
Relocating for someone is not a light decision to make. The realtionship might not work out and you will resent the other person for the sacrifice made and yet the decision was yours. But then again, what is life without a few risks for love?
I hope things work out well for you, whatever your decision.
2006-09-09 05:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead with your plans to find a job and relocate. However, my advice for you is not to stay with her, for the following reasons:
1. You give yourselves more time to get together as friends, without commitments first.
2. Jumping into a relationship too soon will not give you any time to assess each other's values and behaviour.
3. By not staying together you also show to both your parents how responsible and matured you are
4. At the same time, this gives you the opportunity to re-confirm whether your love is true and lasting.
5. If you really meant for each other, what's the hurry? Wait till both of you are financially independent, then decide on commitment
2006-09-09 05:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if anyone else read your entire question. If you're 19, ant haven't seen her in 10 years, you were 9! I don't believe someone you had a crush on at the age of 9 would still be the same at 19. You are living in a fantasy world. If someone else asked you the same question, what would you say?
2006-09-09 05:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by caramel_sundae1077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world is your oyster. You're young, you have job prospects and a relationship in the making. I see definite positive goals forming in your life. Keep your head on straight and follow the rainbow. If it was me, I would go for it and stay with my plan.
2006-09-09 05:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. All you can do is try. i hope everything works out for you guys you are young and have a lot ahead of you. my opinion just dont move too fast that can mess everything up. yea go ahead and move there get a job and settle down im sure it will all work out. GOOD LUCK
2006-09-09 05:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by craig k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should try to find job there and to stay with her because I think that you love each other very very much and if it's true believe me your relationship will work!!!
2006-09-09 05:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ana G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this question already, since you apparently didn't get the answer you wanted the first time, just help us out and tell us what you want to hear.
2006-09-09 04:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young.in my opinion you should wait tiil go someones behind.I think this is just calf love
peace and good luck
2006-09-09 05:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by feel_the_fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DeaR WiL,
if you fail to plan, it means you plan to fail.
Just plan your work,... and work your plan..
just do want you wanna do
2006-09-09 05:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋