why does he keep coming back?

Question

if he knows how i am and knows what i expect. everytime he comes back he doesnt change. what is he trying to prove.to see how fed up i am or can get. he is 43 and im 37. hes like a kid and plays games at his age. do i need to completely leave him alone

Answer 1

Yes. You really need to leave him alone. Why do you take him back? Haven't you heard of the old saying, "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me"? Tell him to grow up before he handles grown up issues like relationships. LOL

Answer 2

or maybe you just need to lighten up you are entering an age where life is becoming shorter i mean people are dieing at young ages these days. Why not let him play a little? know if your talking about head games and such then ya you need to not let him back into your life but then again your question is vague and doesnt explain what your really trying to say

Answer 3

Get rid of his *** u don't need his bullshit anymore U are 37 years old go find someone who want bug the **** out of u and respects you acts mature not like him who's a big *** baby and needs 2 grow the f up ..damn 43 y.o that's a damn shame .

Answer 4

Yes, because maybe he'll get the hint to not come back. If he thinks you'll be willing to give him a chance then he'll wheedle his way back in. The best thing you can do is cut off all ties with him, that means no phone calls, no e-mails, no talking at all. Eventually he'll get a clue and just go.

Answer 5

Leave him and cut all ties with him completely! He is an immature 43 year old man. You will never get anywhere with him if that's how he is at his age. Big time loser!

Answer 6

well, if you tell him that you don't like him and you dint want to be with him, he should leave you alone! tell him to get the stepping or you report him for harassment. yes you do. well then tell him you aren't int rested. tell him that you have another boyfriend, and that he is a body builder and will kick his booty if he doesn't leave you alone.

seriously tell him that you dint want to see him any more. tell him that he acts like a kid and that's not cool. tell him that you want to be left alone! tell him you will get the police involved if he keeps doing it. screen your phone calls, and record the cell phone conversations, and give it to the police. if that doesn't help, then move and legally change your name, change your appearance, and your car or truck what ever you are driving.

Answer 7

hi angel.i am sorry for what you going through but i cannot tell u to leave him bec im not the one that loves him.do what u think is rite for you...good or bad you will live with it dear ,only follow your heart not your brain bec it will lead u to your faith
anyway i must say this,u must really be doing something rite that he everytime comes back.good for u !!!show me the teqnique

Answer 8

Yes!

I wonder why his marriage broke up? May-be what he told you was not true. May-be the wife (or girlfriend) had good reason to be done with him. And now you are taking on her ex-problem.

Find someone better.

You deserve better.
God Bless you, ;-)

Answer 9

depend on you, do you like him? or how about your feeling ?you are 37 and have to think about a marriage right .consider your life your situation and make decisions.

Answer 10

he keeps on coming back because he sees you as his open garage, a place where he can park his car after painting the town red and seeing other more interesting cars. please close that door and make him park outside. that way he will realize how important you are to him. Good luck!