Hello, I am a 41 year old male. I am listed on one of the many internet dating sites. I had a 29 yr old female email me the other day. She wanted to chat and email one another back and forth. The kicker is that she is in a very far flung Russian republic, Im in the States. Her english is not the best in the world, but I think we are communicating well enough considering our differences. So my question is, Is she for real or should I quit dreaming? BTW I know about the scams and such. I would NEVER EVER send money or give credit card information....Hoping yes, stupid NO.
2006-09-08 21:06:14 · 14 answers · asked by Brian Keith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think ben dover is right. she probably is very needy, next thing u know u probably will have strong feelings and will want to move her over here, which will probably be a lot of money, then mover her family over here too. no u can do better than that. just go to some grill bars hang out or go to some church revivals and u should meet a nice lady.
2006-09-08 21:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants a american passport!!but tell her straight that will never happen at least for 5 years if u are still together!!make sure you stand by your statement never send money or credit card info.
Although you dont want to think the worst try to date as normally as possible but always have in the back of your mind this could go horribly wrong and you could get stung BIG TIME like many people before you.please please tread carefully with this one
Good luck
2006-09-08 21:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people are trying to get to the states as you know, just be careful....And 41 an 29 is not bad...If you were 60, than that may be a problem LOL
2006-09-08 21:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's even ambivalent talking to women in the states. You don't know what you're dealing with. Forget the foreign females. For all you know, it could be a man or a kid.
2006-09-08 21:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tread carefully. She might want to use you, fine upstanding American boy, to get to affluent America, then dump you like yesterday's cornhusks. Grill her and make sure she's what she seems before you get in too far.
2006-09-08 21:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can tell if she is real if u can talk to her on the phone....be careful in the net there r a lot of scam...ive got a friend also she met her husband in the net...she is her in the state now.....
some people r lucky to find ther love in the net...
some r just trying hard...will find out there is nothing wrong if u just start dreaming and start to know her...gud luck...hope u find the right one
2006-09-08 21:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an intelligent person.....but I don't know what to tell you...You are the one she is e-mailing does she sound sincere? Do you think she is the kind to use you to get to the states...Good Luck
2006-09-08 21:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is for real, most want to get out russia and come to the USA and marry someone who will support them. Talk to her for at least 6 months, if your still interested, take a trip to russia to see her.
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2006-09-09 11:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by shahab a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her name is Elena tell her I said Hi.
2006-09-08 21:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell her true intentions. I say give it more time and just enjoy the conversation.
2006-09-08 21:11:39 · answer #10 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋