They are always ready for ..
1)distance instead of love
2)play mind games instead of care
3)talk less instead of being sharing
4)being funny instead of understanding
5) insensitive instead of sensitive
2006-09-08 20:56:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a guy but I think the opposite migth also be true also:
if she gives love, guys want distance
if she cares, guys play mind games
if she talks, she's nagging
if she understands, she's boring
is she is sensitive, she's too touchy.
right girls?
2006-09-08 21:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are always ready for ..
1)distance instead of love
~ I don't know what you're talking about. I'm not distant towards my bf or any previous guy. If a girl is distant, that just means she's afraid all the guy is after is getting into her pants. If she falls in love with him and he's only after sex, what then? Better to protect yourself, right?
2)play mind games instead of care
~ Maybe you're right on this. Girls like the chase so they want to see the guys chase them, perhaps. I don't do this but I do know girls who do. These girls are just bored and trying to keep themselves amused.
3)talk less instead of being sharing
~ Hmm, maybe they're afraid the guy will judge them if they share everything with them. It takes a while to build up trust.
4)being funny instead of understanding
~ Not sure what you mean, but I tend to be both towards my bf - being funny when we're playing around or trying to cheer him up and understanding when he's being a bit ... stubborn.
5) insensitive instead of sensitive
~ I'm very sensitive, so I disagree with you here.
Maybe if you spend more time with a girl you'll understand their personality better.
2006-09-09 04:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by ♥iamsleepy♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently this is the kind of girl you are attracted to. are you picking your girls based on looks, or personality? try being friends first with someone who is nice but that otherwise you would overlook. don't lead her on, just tell her you only want friendship for now. then see where it takes you. if nothing else, you have another friend, and you can never have too many friends!
2006-09-09 04:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by bad guppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong girls. Ditch your pick up spots and find new ones. You need greener pastures to graze in. Especially since most times guys are complaining a girl is to sensitive! lol
2006-09-09 04:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by IveBeenHereSinceYesturday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being tested and you sont have the sense to know it. Shell share when you do, love when you show it first and be understanding only if you understand her. At the rate your going that will never happen
2006-09-09 04:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by david k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls like playing are to get and just playing period... they arent ready or want to be in something serious but not everyones like that. sometime i might come off as one or more of those but thats because of part relationships that have made me act differently with guys.
2006-09-09 04:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jaime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm my guess is you are "enamored" of someone who doesn't share your feelings...that's life. No one HAS to feel the same way you do about them, just because you have the feelings for a woman doesn't mean she has to feel the same about you. She gets to have a choice in the matter as well since it is HER life too.
2006-09-09 04:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it, Pal. They want YOU to be all of those things. Its not something for them. The two way street of love only goes one direction.
2006-09-09 03:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the one you are with is all of those things but not every woman is like that
2006-09-09 04:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are picking from the wrong crowd.
Not all girls are like that.
Sounds like you have had relationships with very immature girls.
2006-09-09 04:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by Kayak_Girl_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋