I have known my friend for many years. I like him and I keep getting mixed signals from him. At first it was "only friends" behavior, but now I am getting "I like being near you, and want to be near you" behavior. I don't know if he is messing with my head or if I am just imagining things. He is the only gut I see me having sex with and I don't know if I should. I want to yeah, but he may not feel the same way. I just wish I knew if he wanted to 'do it' with me. I think he does, he is always asking me over, we haved talked about sex with eachother all the time, and he likes my company. So I would figure he does, but he hasn't even mentioned about doing it. But I think we should, but I can't be sure. So that is why I need some help. Should I have sex with him or should I not?
2006-09-08 20:38:51 · 17 answers · asked by Call me K 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
No, Don't have sex with your Friend. It will totally ruin your friendship.
Besides you should not have sex outside of marriage.
Find wholesome things to do with your time.
Look at all of the posts on this website about disease, unplanned pregnancy, Heart ache, Loss of self esteem.
Save yourself for marriage and save your self from messing up your life.
God Bless You, ;-)
2006-09-08 21:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by CHS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age if your still young no you shouldnt even be thinking about that if your not so young well then I think if you take it to that level and yall get involved sexually if something happens in the relationship your gonna lose a friend and of course if you tell any guy you wanna have sex of course they are gonna say yes they are freaks but maybe he does like you but he doesnt want to go to the next level with you because he wants to keep you as a friend and then again maybe your reading to much into it because you like him already and see him in a sexual way maybe you should have a conversation with him and see if he likes you in that way and if not then you will know and you will still have your friend and then find you a man else where good luck
2006-09-09 03:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are you? I ask because if you can't figure out that guys never ever are "just friends" with girls, then your probably not ready for sex.
Women listen up, I'm going to let you in on a guy secret. We don't want to just be your friend. It isn't always just about sex, but if we engage you it is definitely that we want more than just a friendship.
Most guys that tell a girl they are just friends, are just too scared to aske them out.
2006-09-09 03:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by Philbert 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. why not? unless you both think that it would end up in an adward situation like if he was talking to another girl you would have to realize that you guys are just best buds and the same for him. Who knows you could end up like me me and my best friend started hooking up then soon after realized that we wanted to be with eachother and started going out we've been togerther for two years and now we are expecting our first child together!
2006-09-09 13:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by britt3m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he is a REAL TRUE friend I would say NO, I had a friend for MANY years then well....I ended up sleeping with him and well....I ended up having a baby as well. NOW we can NEVER put that friendship back together we had tried and tried. Let's say today all we do is fight. I regret it today. IF you are only friends I would keep it that way TRUST ME! BEST WISHES
2006-09-09 10:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if you really want to keep him as a long time friend. This will change the dynamics of your relationship forever and if the love affair goes badly, so will the friendship. So give this alot of thought.
2006-09-09 03:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by Desi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM... GIRL FIRST OF ALL
IF U CANT SET DOWN & TALK TO HIM ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM....
& ASK HIM HOW HE FEELS ABOUT U?? & WAT YALL WANNA DO ABOUT THAT!!?
THEN "no" DONT HAVE SEX WIT HIM....TIL U GET THESE THINGS FIGURED OUT....
CUZ UR NEVER GONNA FULLY KNO HOW HE """"TRUELY FEELS"""" IF U JUS WAIT ON signals....ASK HIM!!
GET THE WORDS STRAIGHT FROM HIS MOUTH....cuz if he doesnt then u dont wanna ruin a good relationship.....cuz if its jus for sex & nothing else!! it might seem like a good idea at the moment...but i guarentee u it wont be later if that s the case.....
IF YALL WANT MORE TO YALLS RELATIONSHIP....THEN GET ALL THESE MIXED EMOTIONS & SIGNALS OUT OF THE WAY FIRST
[[[BEFORE U MAKE EVERYTHING MORE CONFUSING WITH SEX]]]
WELL GOOD LUCK
HOPE I REALLY HELPED U OUT!!!!
2006-09-09 06:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by Lili 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, me as a guy, i wouldnt talk about sex with a girl whom im willing to have sex with. If i do, she might get that "friendy friend" feeling from me.
2006-09-09 03:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by TjStiL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he is a good friend and you have no feelings for him in a romantic way, it will mess your friendship up. A good friend is harder to find than a bf.
2006-09-09 16:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by pavick39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He is the only guy I see me having sex with"
How old are you?
I think your focus should be elsewhere. Why do you wanna have sex with him? Is it cuz you love him or just enjoy his company.
2006-09-09 03:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotAl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋