Our 2nd date was cancelled?

Question

She's been sick on and off all week and when i called her today to make sure everything was still good for the date, She was like I'm sorry I feel bad for cancelling but Im soo sick. So I couldn't understand her because I had woke her up and I was like do you have a hangover? And she said, no you know I'm sick. Well then she saidIll call you and we can talk later, then she said "I'll call you later", I said ok call me.

So then i was kinda worrying about her, so i called and her dad answered (she's 20) and he said she was asleep and I said well tell her "I" called and that I was just making sure she was ok.

Should I send her an email later tonight, call her tomorrow or wait for her to reply?

I don't wanna push things im just trying to make sure she's ok and let her know that if she needs anything I'm here for her. I just don't want her to be "scared off" I guess. What should I do?

Answer 1

Back off! You have shown that you really care, let her contact you!
You don't want to sound to desperate or like a stalker!
Sounds like your a very caring guy, give her sometime and let her call you!

Answer 2

Well, my advice to you is to dont push it too hard. You dont know if she really likes you or is she avoiding you or really if she's sick. And yes, it seems like she's ditching you. But hold on. Give her a chance (So that you wont regret).

My advice is to relax, stop calling her all the time and asking her hows she doing. If she is really sick, dont you think she might wanna rest ?be considerate and give her space.

Give her a two/three days of no-calls-no-bother at all. And see from there if she calls you back. If she doesnt, u give her a ring and if she still say she's sick/busy or whatever - Just be cool and stop calling her. This really means she dont wanna go out with you. Just remain as friends. Call once a while will do.

Hope this works..Good Luck!

Answer 3

It sounds like she's genuinely sick, not simply making excuses to avoid you.

So, don't be too intrusive, she'll need to rest. But you can send text messages or e-mails or call her dad to let you know you're thinking of her and waiting patiently for her recovery. If you're feeling particularly brave, you might send some get-well-soon flowers too. That will, at least, guarantee you a spectacularly good date once she's recovered!

Answer 4

at this point don't sweat it man. if she's sick, there's nothing you can REALLY do for her, even though I know you're feeling pressed to "be there" for her. Give it four days. If she doesn't call, call her to see she's ok and try to reschedule the date. But if she turns that down again, assume she has difficulty telling guys when she's not interested or she's genuinely still sick...if she's interested, she'll call when she's feeling better.

Answer 5

If you don't want to push things then don't, the ball's in her court now, if she's going to call she will call. But, don't wait too long for her call either, not receiving a call back would be a sign of her disinterest and a sign that you should move on.

Answer 6

Send her some flowers and a get well card it sounds like she is really sick and not just trying to brush you off.

Answer 7

Well if you like her then make it up to her by some kind of way that make her feel special but if you want to say goodbye and never see her again you can do that but I think you should make it up too her but dont tell her that you was never sick she will feel bad

Answer 8

I would wait a lil bit. Then call back and see how she's feeling.

Answer 9

calm calm boy relax lwait for her to call u back dont do anything else.

Answer 10

You doning to much, give her some breathing room....