I feel like crap because my ex-boyfriend and I broke up recently, and I get this shyttie feeling, which makes me super depress. i swear, i feel like im dying. and i don't know how i can just move on. my ex-boyfriend and i been together for almost 2 years, and we've been on and off since the first time we got together. he slapped me, poushed me, hurt me and stuff in the past, but i still took him back because i loove him. he wasnt the onyl one thatw as violent either, I was too. However, i just wanna get back to him because it feels like I cannot live without him. i gave up all my friends for him and devoted my wole life towards him. He basically gave up his friends too, and we're both just there for each other. And...OMG, i feel so crappy..........................and the days seem so much longerrrrrrr!!! i want to go to college already and move outta of this HELL-HOLE and just meet new friends and such.
2006-09-08 19:58:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seems to me, you answered your own question "go to college and meet new friends". You don't seriously think that you have a future with this guy. if you marry this guy you'll only end up in some women's shelter with a broken nose and a black eye, if not worse. and if he beats you, he'll beat your kids. so go ahead and move our of your HELL HOLE and get your life together. you feel crappy because you gave up all your friends for him, so get your friends back and your emotional attachment to him will fade away.
2006-09-08 20:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie i know it is hard because i broke up with my bf of almost a year the other week literally. i kno it hurts..i cry at night and wonder is this what u really wanted? it just dawned to me however that it really isnt the end sweetheart. if its been going on and off its really not consistant and you need to learn to find someone who can appreciate you and give u the love u deserve. you may be like he completes me..but always remember you are completed even b4 you met him. you always are, no one can fill YOU in. It takes sometime to adjust but soon u will be moving back at ur feeet. i suggest take a break of him and u will miss him and want to see him so bad..but if you dont see him you can realize if you are happier or unhappier without him..let that be ur judge and if u are unhappier you shud talk to him about it..but remember you are who you are and people will come and go but your life is about urself you dont need anyone to help u live it. ur heart may be broken but if he left the pieces you can put it back together.
2006-09-08 20:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by [!!!_sauceyknowsbest__] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we get attached to someone it is very hard to move on and simply "get over it". Be patient with yourself, read "How to Survive the Loss of a Love" (great book) and realize that a 2 year relationship can't be gotten over with quickly. The deeper your connection the more time you'll need to move on. Nature is on your side and you WILL feel better. Assess what you learned from the relationship and turn those lessons into "upgrading" next time. We upgrade jobs, why not relationships? (If you want a good laugh, read "I used to miss him but my aim is improving" - funny book about breakups and moving on).
2006-09-08 20:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by JT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be grateful that you got out. Start treating and demand the respect you want and deserve and then hopefully one day you will find someone you really love, because they understand what love is!
Good luck and work on your own self esteem. You never devote your saftety, sanity or give away your self esteem. A real man wouldn't have it! Good luck in College!
2006-09-08 20:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girlfriend, I am in the same boat only I have been with him for 16 years and married 18. At least it was only 2 years and not your whole life, like mine. Time will heal your pain, they say.
2006-09-08 20:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by lynddd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep youself busy it will all work out. Im glad you finally broke it off because it could have really ended wose than what you have now. Trust God and keep busy. When you get to College you will TOTALLY forget him, just remember to stay away from all the guys like him....
2006-09-08 20:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by want-my-advice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY. It sucks, but it will be worse if you go back immediately.
Don't hook up with another guy.
Wait.
Distract.
Wait some more.
If Christmas comes and you still can't forget him, then consider counseling.
2006-09-08 20:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by lucy_shy8000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because we love someone we don't need to be with them.
It will hurt. Because you commited time and energy to him.
But.........he is not good enough for you.
You deserve better.
Cry, then pull yourself up and move on.
2006-09-08 20:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with 1 of his friend to make him jealius and he run back 2 you
2006-09-08 20:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just move on
2006-09-08 20:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by ang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋