if you loved somebody, can you change for him? to stay with him?
2006-09-08 19:48:34 · 18 answers · asked by queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People can alway change if they choose to.
2006-09-08 19:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Queen, This is a very good question.Since i have found my true soulmate, and plan on spending the rest of what life i have left with him. He has brough out alot of my good nature from inside of me. And if i had some bad habits,I don't remember them.True love can make you do anything, without thinking about it.Of course theses are good things.I would say,Yes alittle change from love and changes from me.
Clowmy
2006-09-09 03:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love covers over a multitude of sin.
1 Peter 4:8
(these religions fanatics on here keep reporting me because they're offended by my questions, yet I know my bible better than any of them!)
If you want a definition of BIBLICAL love, look in 1 Corinthians 13. Now, compare that definition to what you and your boyfriend got going on.
Is it a match??
There's God's love, and there's a wordly/selfish/sorry excuse for love.
2006-09-09 02:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by koolbreeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't mean that if you love somebody you have to change for him in order your relationship to work out. sometimes it's not how you should change to fit in the relationship you are in but it is how you cope up with all those incompatibities of yours such that you don't need to change anymore and still be happy with what is in your relationship. if you force yourself to make others happy you wouldn't be satisfied and happy of your relationship, the same it goes when you force somebody to change for you, he/she might not be happy and satisfied of your relationship too. bottomline there is, you have to accept each other and when you have done that there you'll find true happiness in you relationship....
2006-09-09 02:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by pink2litle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something only you can answer.Do you really want to change?Do you want to be someone your not?I have found that if you change to please someone,you lose yourself.It gets confusing as to who you really are.Be true to you>Wait for someone who loves you as is.There is always compromise but don't change.You can stop doing things that you too see as wrong,but anything other than that stay you.You are who you are suppose to be.
2006-09-09 02:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by kelliekareen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but no. the only person who can change someone is their self. No amount of work you put in to change them will ever work if they don't want to change themselves..
2006-09-09 02:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can I have a man that eat pork so I stopped, and I changed some of the thing I use to ware and he really don't care for weave so i gave that up too.
2006-09-09 02:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Wan R 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it really can..i realize this because i love my bf, and i would do anythig to keep him with me because i know he would do the same thing. i do what i ask of him and that is an unspoken agreement between us. Also when you love someone..you learn to love the bad traits and i guess when u learn more and mroe about one another u learn about the bad things too but they are there..no one can be perfect and the two just have to know that and be prepared.
2006-09-09 02:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by [!!!_sauceyknowsbest__] 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think the better question would be: If someone loved you, would they even ask you to change yourself? (unless you're addicted to controlled substances or something like that)
2006-09-09 02:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by medellia1984 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love can do anything, but be careful, it can hurt too.
If someone wants you to change ... It's pobably not love. Simple.
You will find someone who is capable of love.
2006-09-09 02:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jonnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋