i dont know how :(
2006-09-08 19:36:35 · 26 answers · asked by fatty 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You don't. You do the mature and selfless thing and give your baby up for adoption so that he or she will have a chance at a decent life with a couple who DO know how to take care of a baby.
2006-09-08 19:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Fall Down Laughing 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A lot will go naturally, you'll be amazed. A lot can be learned from books and the internet. And the most knowledge is probably in your family and maybe also the family of the other person responsible for your pregnancy.
A lot of people on here scream adoption, but do think twice at least before taking that step. There are also advantages to being a parent on a relatively young age, you will have all those. Think about it!
Stay calm as much as you can. Maybe you can follow these classes of yoga for pregnant women. This also gives you opportunities to other sources on how to mother a baby. The first step now is a safe delivery, that is what they will teach you there in the first place. Try to take this whole pregnancy one step at a time. And don't listen too much to all those pointed fingers.
All the best to you and yours.
2006-09-08 21:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by groovusy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not so bad situation.Actually giving birth is the best thing in the world!First,you will need your parents' help.Are they agree to help you with the baby?Are you 2 going to have a safe home(the home where you have lived the last 16 years)?It's probably that way if you have a computer to write and put this question here:)So,the best thing you can do is buying a book,something for taking care of babies.Go into the book-shops and ask.The shop-assistant will be glad to help you and he could also recommend you a good book.Then read the book.You should buy a lot of things for the baby - clothes,toys...you know,all thing one baby eed.Ask your parents to advice you.I guess they will pay for everything.The most important thing for you and your baby(when it comes) is YOU.You have to be beside your baby,talk to him,play with him,take care of him.Don't let your parents only do it because there is a risk later the child would love them more than you.Be the first person in your child's life.If you need more help,write me an email - rabotoholi4ka@yahoo.com I'll be glad to help you:)I have 7 children and I'm 33 now.I was pregnant when I was 17,so I can tell you it is not bad,it is very good!
2006-09-09 00:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by julie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so many couples want to take care of a baby and would do the best job by giving the baby what it really needs like a loving place to grow up with a Mom and Dad . If you feel you can't give your baby the best life and you do care, be a good person and do what you know is better for your baby. Look into adoption.In about 18 years your child will thank you for putting him first.Also try to do whats best for your self and live a better life make better choices so you can be a happier person.Try going to church finding support there .God will always help just let him.
2006-09-09 09:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by mairias4cuties 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can adoption would be best, I was in the same boat but my bf and fam told me everything would be fine not true I left when my son was 9 months, but if you can't do that then get a damn good support system because you'll never make it with ou it. I had to work two job and live on my own with my son, I did not use the state for assistant because I wanted to support my own child, but it's hard and if your alone then it's harder. And you need to provide a good life for the child. But think there are so many families out there that can't have children and you can later on in life, so why not help one out. With my second child I had to put up for adoption it was the best decision I have ever made, I do not regret it at all, he has a two parent home that is stable and loving and that can give him everything he need. Do what is best for the baby and not you, if for you then you are selfish and not worthy of having a baby.
2006-09-08 19:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-18 07:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good friend of mine had a baby at 16. By no means is it easy, but as soon as you see that precious baby looking up at you it will all be worth it. Definately stay in school. I know there are some schools that provide a nersury. Good luck.
2006-09-09 03:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by bbydol221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all don't listen to all those rude people commenting on here about how you shuld have hought of that. one day they will elarn not to judge. i know i did when i ebcame pregnant before i got married. anyway. do as much research as you can. read books like what to expect while expecting, take parenting classes. lotsof hospitals offer those for parents-to-be. it helps teach you how to properly warm a bottle, brest feed, change a diaper, thigns like that. but most of taking care of a baby is patience. you jsut learn little tricks as oyu go along because not every baby is the same, they all respond to different thigns in different ways. ask a mom, older sister, or some mother you know and feel comfortable with to help you out. don't depend on them to take care of your baby for you, but ask for help and advice. good luck. it's hard, but well worth it.
2006-09-08 19:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by osafety6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where's your mom? She should be able to tell you how to take care of a child. Get some books, ask a social worker and if you think you can't take care of that child, better think of adoption. I'm sure there's a lot of couples out there that wants to adopt.
2006-09-08 19:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a parenting class starting now, it is good that you are asking questions and you know that this will be rough for you, I hope you have someone to help you. I wish you the best! Stay in school set a good example. LOTS OF LUCK!
2006-09-08 19:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋