there is this girl i like but she has a boyfriend who goes to a different school which isnt to far away but they still dont see eachother lots. i need help on what to do since i see her every day!
2006-09-08 19:34:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes they can work if the two individuals are willing to put the work and effort into it ... I was in a successful long distance relationship for over 2 years and now we are married. Needless to say time will tell if your friends will work.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-08 19:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are happy in their relationship, then I guess it is working for them. Some couples don't want to see one another everyday. They enjoy their space and time to do the things they like to do by themselves or with people other than the boyfriend/girlfriend. It's nice to have a relationship with someone, but there is a whole other life beyond that, and a lifelong of togetherness all in due time.
2006-09-08 19:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by daisymae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived this one. In my case the boyfriend lived almost two hours away. I actually took the girl to the prom because he couldn't make the trip. the closest i got to breaking them up was a kiss at the end of the night and a second-hand comment that she could fall for me...if she wasn't still with the other guy. she ended up moving away from her family to live with her boyfriend and his family and finished up high school there. Could it break up naturally? Sure. If you have game, you could force the issue. You could also go after one of her friends, which may make her jealous. Good luck.
2006-09-08 19:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by 101pupil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of factors in setting up a long term relationship. Depends on the maturity, the communication, honesty and trust. If you're in your teens, don't count on it. It's possible at that age, but a rarity. I'm in Colorado dating my girlfriend who's in Beijing. Distance is not an issue if you're both equally commited.
Good luck
2006-09-08 19:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Zen Master D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have known a lovely lady for almost 18 years - we were in the same city for about 5 of those years. We worked together -she was my main support person at work.
After I left Dallas, we met up with each other in different cities (New Orleans, Houston, etc.) for about 3 years.
I have seen her three times in the last 10 years (most recent was last month), I visited her in Dallas (I live in Scottsboro, AL).
I am going to move in with her at the last of September and we plan to grow old together. Looking forward to long talks and long walks.
2006-09-08 19:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Glen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can last if both parties are very committed and/or if it's meant to be.
My brother and his girlfriend have always lived in different states and they've been dating for like 5 years. They see each other every other weekend if not every weekend and they have plenty of contact by phone.
Just have a lot of trust and keep very close in touch.
2006-09-08 19:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa whoaaa..if she has a boyfriend right now i think the best thing to do is let them have their own thing. You don't want to break anything up because if shes happy you would want her to be right? Do the right thing and i know it has to be in the back of your head somewhere that you shouldn't go around taking things that belong to other people. wait a while and see what happens with her and her boyfriend, if they break up for their own reasons then u can make a move. if not wait it out or look for someone else.
2006-09-08 19:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by [!!!_sauceyknowsbest__] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rarely
2006-09-08 19:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by ppellet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They usually don't last. Seeing her everyday is a big plus for you. Besides, who knows how many girls her boyfriend is seeing everyday at HIS school. Girls want someone close to them so they can, well, be girly. Your chances may very well be good. Good luck, buddy, go on and get her!
2006-09-08 19:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by kimmunism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since she has a boyfriend, she's taken. so i think you should move on, maybe flirt a little, but dont be too pushy. it doesnt really matter if you see the one u like everyday or once a week, if you like them, it shouldnt really matter. maybe u should find another girl that isnt taken.
2006-09-08 19:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋