I don't know where to begin really except to say that most of my life has been posted on here in my own stupidity, so for the refresher course, please read back. The guy that I have told you about that I am madly in love with just happens to be calling a "best friend" of his he has known since childhood in Cali. She is married... I have a problem with this.. I am tired of guys not being able to see how dangerous it is to get invloved, with married women!! Its not right and its just asking for trouble. Secondly he has been posting little notes on MYSPACE to his cousin about the "wave of women" he has been hanging out with, which of course includes me. I feel like saying, "Let me be the first to say BUH BYE!!" I just found out tonight that he has become friends with a woman who is friends with another woman that I am no longer friends with because she abused me for almost a year, slandering my name etc. MY LIFE IS A MESS!! Any suggestions, aside from killing myself??
2006-09-08 19:25:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing you can do is truly ask yourself, "Do I deserve this?" The answer is no. You can be much happier by surrounding yourself with a more carefully chosen circle of friends. Try that and remember that this friend, has been ignorant to your feelings repeatedly and is not worth your time.
Good luck
2006-09-08 19:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by Zen Master D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Err wow, how tragic.There are many others who suffer a worse fate than you.Love is blind.How can u fall in love with a guy who happens to hang around wid "wave of women".Screw tat fella.Don't care bout him or her.Rather enjoy the drama that's about to *** .. WOMANIZER VS Friendx2 of SLANDEROUS WOMAN
or if u feel guilty[and wants to get back at him], then u cud alwaz expose him to the woman and gang up wid her to get even!
2006-09-08 19:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a married woman, and i am friends with lots of guys. for me, they are just easier to get along with than girls much of the time, and it doesn't interfear with my marriage. so maybe you should not stress about the close friendship he has with the married lady - it most likely is nothing more than just that - a close friendship.
for lots of guys, they like to have a girl they can talk to that they know is off-limits, because it gives them a chance to work out their own 'girl issues' to someone who is experienced and sympathetic - and who they are not likely to be flirting with. so the married friend is not an issue, in my mind.
if you love this boy - does he love you back? if not, and you are not enjoying the relationship, then maybe it is time to move on. otherwise, just realise that for some people they can have friendships with the opposite sex that are nothing more than that.
2006-09-08 19:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by girl3blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see. Why exactly are you madly in love with this guy...Oh yeah, I know. It's because he treats you like crap. You have two choices. Accept your roll as booty call/one of the women on his wave or move on and find someone more willing to commit to you exclusively. Repeat after me "He will not change. I cannot make him change. I am in charge of my own life."
2006-09-08 19:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by 101pupil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some new friends, do somthing different that will keep your mind of things, Sure I would be pissed if that happen to me, but life is to short to be mad, your young, enjoy life while you can. Always remember what goes around comes around in due time.
2006-09-08 19:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Wan R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is time for the two of you to get off line before this ruins your marriage.
Find another hobbie for the two of you.
This is not reality. but it sure can move right in to reality.
And the grass really isn't grenner on the other side
2006-09-08 19:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounded like you had the right idea to begin with, say "BUH BYE!" to this guy and find new friends. Start fresh............
2006-09-08 19:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by dawn27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking to a married woman doesn't necessarily mean you plan on DOING STUFF with her-Geez!
But him becoming friends with a woman who abused you for almost a year-BACK-STAB!
You TELL HIM, GIRL!!
GIRL POWER!!!
2006-09-08 19:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spread the word he has a small shlong and he is a pre-mature ejaculator. then watch "The wave of women" turn to a ripple.
2006-09-08 19:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems you are too deep into this and should perhaps start over. I think it might be wise to say bye bye or something too.
2006-09-08 19:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by freed hat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋